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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.

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I cannot repost what Flying Squid was posting here, because it involved highly disturbing and dangerous content, including:

Content WarningGraphic content, harassment, self-harm, and suicidal ideation, which I reported immediately.

While this behavior is shocking, it’s not completely out of left field, as members of this community and platform will already be familiar with their behavior. Flying Squid has long been regarded as one of the least productive and most problematic mods on all of Lemmy, often picking fights and abusing their mod privileges. I view this change as a positive step for Squid, .world, and Lemmy as a whole.

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[–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 22 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Looked up the modlogs. What the actual fuck.

That said, this whole episode and the comment deletions with the "we can't share this" reasons kinda show how Lemmy is better than Reddit in that modlogs are public.

I find it great that mods can't outright delete stuff, only hide it. It lets them do the job of cleaning up convos of spam and trolls without the unchecked power aspect to it.

[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Am I crazy or is the modlog missing heaps?

I control-f for the 'I to complain?' part of the post above and don't see anything. Just trying to follow the argument is confusing as hell? It sounds like someone doxxed FS, and he got suicidal over it? I hope gets some help if he's seriously feeling like that.

[–] catloaf@lemm.ee 13 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, admins can purge stuff from the mod log. That comment seems to be completely gone.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 9 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

that comment specifically was a link to a graphic image, so yes the admins certainly purged that. cc @Deceptichum@quokk.au

[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Ah interesting, I’m curious as to what it was now.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

i saw it XD here let me telepathy it to you bzzzzzt

[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 5 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

Wow that's fucked up, was the zebra consenting?

[–] veroxii@aussie.zone 4 points 11 hours ago

It's not really a black or white issue.

[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Okay I tried to go through the modlog and the comment screenshot that you censored is removed from the modlog?!? How the fuck in censorship that bad on this platform. I might as well use tiktok

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

If you read further down it is discussed why it was removed.

[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Removed from the mod log tho? I don't see anywhere explaining that

[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

why is it not there anymore?

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (3 children)

Both of them are fucking insane. To devote this much energy to weirdos on the internet is deranged. They both need to devote their energy to better things, as evidenced by the fact that I had to press "show context" on their comment thread so many times I lost patience. I thought everyone on Lemmy was better than this. I dont care what the original cause of the disagreement was at this rate because EVERY step of the way, one of them couldve turned on do not disturb or gone to an alt account or SOMETHING. If either of you are seeing this, you can do better. Flying Squid specifically? Threatening suicide is the number one way to look immature (of every kind), especially over a stranger on the internet. Do. Better.

Edit: If someone could give a kind description of what the drama was even all about, I'd appreciate it. I can't bear to dig through either of their histories.

[–] catloaf@lemm.ee 12 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I'm fine with looking at this stuff. It seems FS is having a mental health episode, and this is the result. It's not drama.

[–] fxomt@lemm.ee 3 points 2 hours ago

FS does have BPD if i recall. I'm no professional on BPD, but this might be related.

I honestly feel bad for him, i never hated him but it must be tiring for an entire community to hate you, while you're already depressed; and then shit like this happens.

I hope he's okay.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 13 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

And the sick thing is we have been CALLING THIS GUY OUT FOREVER. The .world admins are ABSOLUTELY partially at fault for this for letting this user have the power they have had for so fucking long. Sorry for shouting I’m upsetti. 🙃

+1 to your edit though. The content was so vile and triggering, I was not up to the task. So, fair warning to anyone who wants to further investigate a case where every party is so obviously in the wrong. Tread carefully.

[–] Cephalotrocity@biglemmowski.win -3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

we have been CALLING THIS GUY OUT FOREVER

The mods aren't the only ones at fault either. He got so much support for this insanity. Call out his BS? Get asked for evidence. Provide text book evidence and it isn't enough. Be clearly in the right from a PTB and downvoted 10:1. The one time he's not technically being a PTB, but rather exhibiting symptoms of manic-depression, and people defend him saying 'this post isn't appropriate' when the history makes it absolutely so. All you upvoting MFs in the past have been cheering a clearly insane person, so maybe do a personal inventory of what seems rational to you and double check reality eh?

I'd be cheering for his removal except he's still mod of a few communities I'd like to participate in. L.W admins need to delete all his content and ban the IP address. I for one can't wait to never see that name on Lemmy ever again and I know I'm not alone.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not a fan of his moderation style, but isn't the last paragraph a bit much?

[–] Cephalotrocity@biglemmowski.win -3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

It'd only be enforcing what probably is going to happen voluntarily anyways. My guess is it will be months before he uses the account again because he'll want the drama of 'did he do it?' to play out.

If I thought it wasn't too much I wouldn't have said it, and you saying it is literally supports the first paragraph (edit: which makes it a hilarious joke if that was your intention). He shouldn't be on Lemmy. The damage he's done over time is incalculable and what good would come of letting him back on? Besides it's not like even that could stop him anyways.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 7 points 8 hours ago

I agree he shouldn't be moderating any community. But IP banning him from the whole site seems too much.

[–] catloaf@lemm.ee 14 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not celebrating, the guy is threatening suicide, and posting pictures of it. He needs to get off the Internet and seek help immediately.

I've messaged @lwreport@lemmy.world about it, I suggest you all do the same.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 3 points 17 hours ago

Yes (Content Warning)
Unfortunately, this type of behavior, including threats of self-harm, is not uncommon on the internet and can sometimes be used as an emotional manipulation tactic. However, discussions of suicidal ideation are very sensitive and can be harmful if not handled carefully. Let’s focus on reporting this to the moderators while remaining careful and sensitive in how we address this topic.

[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 7 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

BPR

But they didn’t act in moderation but as a user so the only actual mod action here is Jordan and it’s justified to remove that comment chain.

[–] Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Exactly. And while FS may have been a PTB in general, this isn't really an example of it, it's just sad.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 1 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Because he'd been reported on here previously? Ok, I kind of get what you are saying, but it also feels a bit like rubbing salt in his wounds when he's obviously having a hard time. But it's just my sentimental opinion and I won't say you're wrong either lol.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

you know what you changed my perspective. im gonna edit the title at least you are absolutely right i am being a little salt rubby here.

[–] Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 13 hours ago

arr we're all a bit salty sometimes :p

[–] Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

If this post was about Flying Squid banning you then I'd get the relevance to this community. Otherwise it's just drama imo.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 7 points 13 hours ago

There are enough posts complaining about FlyingSquid moderation here for this one to be relevant

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

i disagree personally i think this post certainly falls under “bans or other sanctions from mods” as outlined in the sidebar

[–] Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Who was power tripping in this example?

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 1 points 13 hours ago

oops i wrote that comment in the wrong text box. copy pasting here:

your position is valid in that this is technically not an example of active power tripping. i personally think this community is more valuable as a historical resource with this kind of follow up content but i won’t say your opinion is wrong.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 3 points 15 hours ago
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