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Like, what the fuck. Waiting rooms, libraries, movie theaters, on and on. That same fucking Samsung notification sound, at volume 11/10. For every notification every 20 seconds as Fox/CNN/QVC forces more and more bullshit on you and therefore us. Do you not know that you’re pissing everyone off? Do you not care? I hope it’s because you’re too stupid to turn off sound notifications, but the high volume suggests that you like it and want more. Your generation was the one making us be quiet in public spaces and now you ruin them for everybody. Seriously, fuck you.

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[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 0 points 52 minutes ago

They see it as a status symbol, like the iPhone tone when the original iphone was released. Idiots.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 4 points 4 hours ago

There was one person who had a whole ringtone as the notification sound. IT would go for 20 seconds.

[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 5 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] sc2pirate@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

I heard a Samsung whistle that ended in a fart sound...12 times in less than five minutes. All numbers are estimated, but I feel like I am undershooting it.

[–] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago

I had the Samsung notification whistle down pat back in the S3/S4/S5 era. Everyone had that as their default and it was so easy to fuck with people.

[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Nah it's Gen Z and their loud iPhone bell notifications.

WE'RE IN CLASS!! SILENCE YOUR PHONES DAMMIT!

[–] AbsoluteChicagoDog@lemm.ee 21 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

No it's any asshole listening to TikTok or YouTube on speaker

[–] Halosheep@lemm.ee 11 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

There is almost nothing worse than someone else's tiktok feed playing out loud in the same room you are.

It's insufferable.

[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 6 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

OH NO

OH NO

OH NO NO NO

Constantly.

[–] reptar@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

Oh god. I've got no carpet so sound moves well through my house despite doors being closed. Hearing something looping because they set their phone down while doing something. Why at such high volume child? After about 5 loops I yell.

[–] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] holo@lemmy.wtf 6 points 13 hours ago

Around 5 billion people have smart phones, it was a first world problem a decade or two ago, everywhere has them. Hell for the poorest African nations a person is more likely to own a smart phone than a car or fridge.

[–] westyvw@lemm.ee 46 points 1 day ago (10 children)

For the record, not a boomer, but why are you targeting that group? Everywhere I go it is someone, just as often young as old, that thinks I want to hear their notifications, tiktok, or whatever bullshit of the day they want everyone to hear.

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 30 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Oh, my absolute favorites are the people that have the volume all the way up and send text messages. You get to hear the send/receive text alert over and over. Then there’s the ones that get the phone call with the obnoxiously loud ring, take forever to find their phone, look at it (still ringing loudly) to see who is calling, and don’t silence the ring while they decide whether or not to answer.

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[–] ramjambamalam@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 day ago

I took a commuter train to the big city the other day and I couldn't believe how many other commuters were scrolling through TikTok with speaker on, or video calling their parents with speaker on. Nobody else wants to hear your shitty music videos.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 18 hours ago

Remember Nokia bricks? Couldn't call them the quietest sounding phone as well.p

[–] HollowNaught@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago

My parents do this. I'll be sitting across the room at night, playing some hades on my steam deck, and I'll suddenly get jumpscared by my mum browsing facebook

[–] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 2 points 19 hours ago

😡😡😡

[–] elephantium@lemmy.world 123 points 1 day ago

I don't think this post is a good fit. The name of the community is "mildly infuriating", not "absolutely enraging"!

[–] perishthethought@lemm.ee 63 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I'm going to start a community called, UnnecessarilyGenerational. This would be post #1.

[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

My first thought was "How is this a boomer thing, I see people of all ages doing this."

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[–] AstralPath@lemmy.ca 93 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Its not just notifications. Its also them watching entire videos at high volume in waiting rooms, ads and everything. That or its endless scrolling and completely unrelated audio blasts chained together doing literal psychic damage to everyone around.

It drives me fucking NUTS. The worst part is they're the ones that will be the first to complain about kids these days being glued to their phones.

[–] Anti_Iridium@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

It drives me fucking NUTS. The worst part is they’re the ones that will be the first to complain about kids these days being glued to their phones.

My dad used to call us the "No-frendo" generation. Nowadays I have to remind him constantly how rude it is to have you phone out at dinner, for example.

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[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 day ago

Do you not care?

bingo. they dont give a fuck.

[–] automaton@lemmy.world 41 points 1 day ago (11 children)

Yes but it isn't only boomers. Teenagers do this all the time in public transport (usually watching loud videos) and they don't have any excuses like for example being half deaf or not knowing how to mute their phone. It is one of the reasons why I prefer driving. I don't want to have an argument with some stupid shit every time I get on the metro.

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[–] Get_Off_My_WLAN@fedia.io 85 points 1 day ago

A neat thing about living in Japan is that there are announcements and signs everywhere telling you to please keep your phone silent and to turn down the volume on your headphones so that noise doesn't leak out either. 'Silent mode' is literally called 'manner mode.'

[–] westyvw@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago

Unless I am actively waiting for something, the phone is on vibrate. But even then my attitude is notifications are what I see when I bother to take a look. There is usually nothing that cant wait until I want to take the time to deal with it.

People are so Pavlovian about their devices, I see it all the time.

[–] NastyNative@mander.xyz 14 points 1 day ago (13 children)

Thats cause they old and cant hear shit…. We are all headed that way.

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[–] FinishingDutch@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago

It’s so fucking annoying. Your phone shouldn’t really make ANY sound as far as I’m concerned, but I’ll allow a low volume ring or single beep or bloop for a notification. But if your phone feels the need to make a sound every 20 seconds while you’re looking at the fucking thing, you need to turn that shit off.

[–] Binette@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They are called BOOMers for a reason X)

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago

You may let yourself out

I suspect that a large part of the problem is a combination of hearing loss and a lack of subconscious awareness of their phone. In both cases (and especially combined), they would likely not even hear the notification if it was at a volume you or I would consider reasonable. So, from their perspective, it is quiet. Any quieter and it would be too quiet to notice.

Of course, anyone capable of basic empathy would also realise that such a perspective is their subjective experience of the world and simply turn the volume off/down until later to avoid annoying other people. Sadly, many of their ilk seem to have forgotten the lessons they taught us as kids.

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