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Is queer an equivalent substitute for lgbtq(...)+? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 year ago by Blahaj_Blast@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

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Hello!

I am new here, and new to the LGBT community in general. Around 6-7 weeks ago I realized I was trans(htf do you make it to 30 and not realize?)

In talking to my therapist, they said they(belonging to the community themselves) like to use queer as shorthand since it includes everyone and isn't an unending acronym that is constantly getting new letters. I also like that and would use it, but being new, I'm not sure how others who've been here longer feel.

Are they equivalent?

I don't like how the acronym keeps changing and accidentally leaving out a letter could be taken as an intentional slight.

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[–] davehtaylor@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This one is a sort of personal preference. There are people who have a problem with the word queer, and it's understandable. I personally cannot stand the f-slur, have far too many negative memories related to it, and have no interest in reclaiming it. But queer feels fine to me. My gender and sexuality are a nebulous mess so queer feels like a good descriptor. It feels like a good way to say "not cis, not het, but no single label works so ¯_(ツ)_/¯ "

It's also easier to say when referring to the whole group instead of LGBTQIA+. But I would only use it that way if I know the people I'm talking to are also ok with the term.

So basically: nothing formal. It's just a personal preference. Only you can know if it feels right for you. But know your audience when using it around others.

[–] Zuberi@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago

F-slur can stay buried, queer is simple and sweet.

If they want more info after "queer," it's an opportunity to change somebody's mindset to be more inclusive