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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards
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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.
Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.
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Making a joke about someone you don't regularly interact with even on a forum seems to be laughing about them rather than with them.
And sometimes a joke is just a joke. Learn to take one.
Once we get to the point where we are perfectly sensitive to every little irk that any person might have, we will be at the point where nobody interacts with anybody because we won't be able to as anything and everything can be insulting.
I have people joke about me all the time, it's fine. I'm not following this person around to yell it in their face, it's a comment in passing. It doesn't hurt anyone unless you decided to stop and make a big deal out of it.
Don't make a big deal out of it, it was a little joke, everyone is fine. I've been relentlessly bullied for my entire youth, and I learned the hard way that some of the bullying you call out on your own with your behavior. If you cry over every little innocent joke, people will pile on. My bullying stopped when I decided it would stop. I changed, the bullying stopped.