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I'm just tired I wish I could come out (vent) (beehaw.org)

submitted 1 year ago by sleepybisexual@beehaw.org to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

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My parents have been giving a lot of mixed signals so indon't know if I can come out or not.

On one hand they don't talk shit and don't get pissy about pride flags and stuff and actually seem supportive. On the other they are extremely religious. To the point where they get pissed when I don't want to go to church. Wish I had a clear answer. Extended family is even worse. Everyone is extremely

I don't even know why I bother. Everything has been crashing down recently. My family is probably unaccepting. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend left me. Don't know why I keep going. I'm just sick and tired

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[–] azureeight@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It doesn't sound like he returns your adoration and love with respect and care like he should. Age gap, is he older? That sucks that he was able to wrap himself in you and then has shown you now twice he doesn't care enough to be straight with you.

Im sorry a man like that stole your heart. I hope you'll be able to see if he can't talk to you straight, what kind of partner is he really? A man like that isnt dependable enough to build a life with.

It sounds more like you don't want to be alone than that he has much good to offer you. I know your parents dont show love dependability ao you think everyone is like that, that it's to be expected and what you deserve. But real people who love you don't run and hide from bad feelings, they stand by your side when things get hard.

He doesn't sound like he was every building a life with you, just liked your affection. And don't feel the need to return it. Try not to let someone like that continue using you. The pain you feel is compounded because you know this isnt how loving people treat one another.