But apparently you do?
Well yes because I dont eat/use animal products for ethical reasons. A carnist obviously knows the least about this subject.
You're dismissing the definition from the vegan society because it allows you to participate in reductionism. Go hang out with the flexitarians, vegetarians and the plant-based if you want to engage in the kind of conversation.
There are so many people who claim to be "vegan" who consume honey or oysters or fish for crying out loud. No wonder why the general population is so confused on what being vegan actually means.
Not to mention all the bad actors who lie about "being vegan" or that they know "someone is vegan" to push false narratives about the community in an attempt to discredit the whole movement.
Wrong, people do not like the status quo being challenged.
People in certain places in the world do not appreciate being told to stop beating or eating dogs. They think those animal advocates are "rude".