MeowyNinhaj

joined 1 year ago
[–] MeowyNinhaj@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I agree but also school doesnt exactly indicate smartness.

You just have to forgive their ignorance of your perspective and find new family to help you fufill your emotional needs. At least your dad sounds awesome! Mine both suck.

[–] MeowyNinhaj@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

How in the hell was anti-intellectualism ever framed as cool?

Ive been on e for 6 years and prog for a number of months. I had read without prog you can experience weaker bones as you age in a study and wanted to try it. I cant really say if i feel better or worse from it emotionally but i think my breasts have gotten a little bigger. It's a naturally occuring hormone so i think it makes sense for hrt.

I do ceramics full time with my SO. We run the pottery subreddit but computery stuff is just a hobby! Heard about lemmy after losing the reddit is fun app. Its much better!

[–] MeowyNinhaj@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 year ago (17 children)

Is there really anything you would benefit from with premium? Its sooo easy to find other content for free elsewhere and use YT ad free is basically one-click on a normal computer.

Muh trudishuns of not knowing thangs and not lernin' no thangs!

I have been there and lemme just say it gets a lot better when everyone gets to know you as your real self. It helps affirm that youre real and as people see you as a girl in passing that helps a lot too. Medical care is slow af as well as the effects so you may as well get used to waiting! I just hope for any trans person to make it to a comfortable place. It took me a long time but with support i feel better and more honest with myself than ever and its really about you being yourself first and then letting those deemed worthy in (as opposed to coming out- you ultimately have agency of your life and identity).

[–] MeowyNinhaj@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Tight jeans and hoodies were my go-to early on. I hope you can reach a point where you dont have to hide from family or anyone.

Karamo from Queer Eye says you let people in instead of coming out because youre the one with the power to understand yourself more than anyone else and your feelings are final. No one has the power to accept or deny you except those you decide to let in. You set those boundaries and be yourself and be comfortable too. Anyone else can get the hell over it.

I had a dream like that. It was so relieving when i saw that it made me drift either into another one or deeper sleep almost immediately. Glad you experienced that!

Ugh parents i wish they could just love us unconditionally! I also get that about others having close connections with their parents. It makes me happy knowing they can experience those things.

Mine emotionally abandoned me after i came out and transitioned medically at 25. Im 30 now and im over them . I miss being able to go to their beach house more nowadays. And the whole having family thing. At least my SO is family and friends to me!

Some people are born with a family and some have to create their own it seems! Hope you are all well.

Yes especially if it speaks to you! I have my blahajypoo and my SO has a blavingad. Im convinced theres a magical ikea stuffy for everyone!

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