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I don't know any Lemmy users IRL. I have nudged my friends towards it. My partner has asked me to post things a few times. Just curious.

Edit: running total including the commenter: 32.5 people

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[–] nadram@lemmy.world 45 points 1 week ago

None. Although I've never asked

[–] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 32 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago

0 and I hope I never meet any of you.

[–] QuincyPeck@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lemmy? I can’t even get them off the goddamned Facebook.

[–] vatlark@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Ha, I have a few of those myself

[–] konalt@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Trick question. I'm the only real user on the internet. Nice try.

Dead internet fact

[–] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

That's what the bot would say.

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[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 week ago

I've never met anyone in person who's even heard of Lemmy. Well, at least whenever it's brought up πŸ˜…

[–] iSeth@lemmy.ml 20 points 1 week ago
[–] BertramDitore@lemm.ee 16 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Any time I’ve brought it up everybody glazes over the first time I say the words β€œinstance” or β€œfederated.” I’ve tried the email analogy, but they lose interest immediately.

[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Call them "communities", not "instances", that might work better

[–] Hyphlosion@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

This made me think about my struggles with trying to learn moves in fighting games.

The tutorial can’t tell me the move with actual button combinations. No. Instead I have to read it as punch + kick + grab first. And because I’m a friggin’ noob, I have to try to interpret what buttons those actions are.

How is this relevant? It really isn’t, the more I think about it. Bad comparison. Ah well. At least you know how sad I am at fighting games now.

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[–] vatlark@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah it's an annoying stumbling block. Blue Sky "fixed" that by only having one instance.

It feels like there should be a sign up page that just gives users a default instance (randomly selected from the top 10 maybe), to avoid the problem.

[–] lukecooperatus@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

Blue Sky "fixed" that by only having one instance.

I suppose we could "fix" it in a similar way by inviting people to a specific instance instead of pointing them at join-lemmy.org.(Although that site has improved massively since the last time I saw it.)

Don't even mention instances or federation, just say "hey you should join me on ".

Once they are using it, that's the first hurdle, and they'll notice pretty quickly that there are other servers that all (mostly) talk to each other.

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[–] mesamunefire@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

2 in my local area. It's how I found out about it. We have been slowly growing the community.

[–] vatlark@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago
[–] socsa@piefed.social 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oh God I would never admit this to anyone IRL

[–] vatlark@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Haha, I stop short of giving them my username

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago

Buddy, I don't even know myself.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

0, and happy to keep it that way.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Zero. I think one lives near me based on some posts they made (as in near the same major city, could still be hours away). Another mentioned going to the same convention I go to every year but it's a massive convention that brings in people from all over the world. The two friends I have that used RIF is fun for Reddit back in the day switched to the official app instead of trying alternatives.

[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Zero. I know a couple of you nerds live in Philly and that terrifies me. I also know the reverse is true. This is the game we have agreed too.

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one of my friends uses lemmy

[–] sockman@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

No. No one else, which is great.

[–] chillBurner@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago

No. No one else, which is too bad.

[–] Carighan@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

None, and that's probably a good thing. And also really not unexpected given how small the platform is.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 7 points 1 week ago

None. I normally don't give out my social media to people IRL, so there's no way they'd know I'm on Lemmy not I know they're on here either.

[–] MxRemy@piefed.social 6 points 1 week ago

I convinced one person to make an account but they don't use it. I do know another person IRL who uses Mastodon, so i send them Lemmy stuff there

[–] diabolik@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 1 week ago

None, as far as I know.

Not a single one.

[–] Thorry84@feddit.nl 6 points 1 week ago

I have had people who I know from other platforms come across me on Lemmy. Just got a DM the other day saying "Found you", we had a good laugh about it since we didn't know we both used Lemmy. However IRL I don't think anyone I know is nerd enough to be on Lemmy.

[–] MakingWork@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago (4 children)

There seems to be 3 forum platforms.

  1. Lemmy
  2. Reddit
  3. Gab

I hear about reddit on the radio and people talk about reddit. No one talks about the other two.

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Zero. However I would be interested in seeing anyone in real life. I feel like it would go do in Lemmy history.

[–] meldrik@lemmy.wtf 5 points 1 week ago
[–] faltryka@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

None here, had never thought about that. Now I feel lonely.

[–] vatlark@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

You have all of us and the Lemmy shenanigans. It's a pretty lively bunch.

[–] ace_garp@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Seen with my own eyeballs?

2

But I'm pretty sure they post to Mastadon and it is visible here on Lemmy. Or maybe they have accounts on Lemmy.

Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―

My partner was on it for like a minute but I don't think they use it anymore. Certainly not as much as I do.

[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I have at least 3 friends IRL that are on Lemmy. One of them I got to join, and two are friends I met doing mutual aid and other organizing projects. Later found out they're on here.

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[–] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I tell many people about it, probably none have signed up but it's not my business to know their username if they have. Might be fun to meet some of you.

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None. Even trying to suggest Mastodon, still no luck which I just stopped as I'm just exhausted of hearing the answer "no".

[–] ByteMe@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have one friend that suggested him to use it, he tried it, he doesn't use it a lot, does it count?

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