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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 210 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Being an unpaid mod of a community owned by a private company that makes money selling advertising to you based based on data they collect from you.

[–] johnthedoe@lemmy.ml 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

That’s insane who in their right mind would dedicate their time to that? And what kind of dogshit company would openly allow that to happen! Glad we’re not there is all I’ll say

[–] wheeldawg@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I heard about that happening on some site. I read it in an article.

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[–] Starb3an@sh.itjust.works 145 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Blizzard@lemmy.zip 100 points 1 year ago (7 children)

The question was about jobs.

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[–] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com 92 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Being a general manager at any retail outlet

[–] FullOfBallooons@leminal.space 61 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh god 100%.

This isn't a matter of life or death, Nicole. This is a Disney Store in a mid-tier mall.

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[–] regalia@literature.cafe 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

it's actually a blue collar job where they do quite a bit of physical labor, at least the good ones. I have more respect for that then a lot of white collar jobs.

[–] Blake@feddit.uk 25 points 1 year ago (11 children)

You probably shouldn’t decide how much to respect someone for what job they do. Unless they do like a really sketchy or immoral β€œjob”, like a hitman or a scammer or something.

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[–] jtk@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Assistant General Managers are even more serious so the sales people pick on them all the time.

[–] DJDarren@beehaw.org 13 points 1 year ago

Assistant to the General Manager.

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[–] Astroturfed@lemmy.world 80 points 1 year ago (17 children)

In America, every job. People make it their identity. It's the first thing they ask or tell people they meet most of the time. They make themselves what they do.

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I get both PoVs. For some, it's just a clock in clock out type thing they do just to survive and maybe pay for their other passions. For others, they spent a majority of their lives training, learning, licensing, and practicing a skillset to perform their work. It's fairly often a large part of one's identity and it's not a negative thing. Though it may be a negative thing to assume someone is only their job.

But I can hardly blame someone for seeing themselves first as a scientist, artist, lawyer, or whatever.

[–] RedditRefugee69@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

A healthy and balanced understanding of different people?? Isn’t this the internet!!!

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[–] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.fmhy.net 64 points 1 year ago (3 children)

CEOs and high ranking business people, what they get to do is not work or work significantly less than a working class people therefore I have no respect for most of em

[–] kava@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

The higher up you go the less work you do and the more stress you take on. You're essentially trading your peace of mind for more money.

When you work a simple manual labor job you clock in and clock out and then go home and live your life. Work stays at the office.

When you're an executive or a business owner you're working 100% of the time. Something happens, you need to respond. Sometimes you need to make hard decisions where you're fucked either way but you need to minimize damage.

You need to find solutions to problems and that keeps you up at night. Don't have enough money for payroll next week? How you gonna do it? Not pay vendors this week? Take out another line of credit at ridiculous rates? Skip a payment on your rent? Equipment financing?

You have to do something- you stop paying your employees and the company falls apart very quickly. Could start a chain reaction of good people leaving, making the situation worse. The buck pretty much stops with you, you can't pass off the problem to someone else.

It's not easy to be in charge. Lot of blame rests on your shoulders if things go wrong.

Of course that doesn't mean they deserve 10,000x the salary of a regular job. I think CEO pay should be capped to some multiple of regular employee pay. Whatever that scalar value should be 2, 5, or 10 I think is debatable. But it should be capped.

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[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Small business owner here. Just to add to the other responses about the stress and responsibility as you move up that others mentioned here... I cover every one of my employees when they take vacation or sick leave. So I am often doing my job, plus another person's. It's not uncommon for me to work 12 hour days without breaks.

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[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 61 points 1 year ago (5 children)

No one has said police yet?

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 37 points 1 year ago

that's not a job, some people are just Assigned Cop At Birth

[–] dom@lemmy.ca 21 points 1 year ago (5 children)

They don't take it seriously enough. They go play army man.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Playing army would mean keeping their cool in hostile territory.

[–] abuttandahalf@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 year ago

Actually it means raping brutalizing and killing civilians in territory where you are not welcome

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[–] mayo@lemmy.today 47 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Work shouldn't be the primary source of stress in our lives no matter what the job is.

[–] shasta@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago

Brb gonna go try to hack the NSA so I have something else to be stressed about

[–] jcit878@lemmy.world 44 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

I'll cop some shit for this one, but coffee baristas.

you put some grounds in a machine, twiddle some nobs and pour milk in a wave pattern

edit: judging by the amount of downvotes ive either pissed off all the Bachelor of Arts grads working as baristas or all the coffee snobs who still think making coffee is some sort of art that can only be done by the most highly trained baristas. Yes, I also love coffee. No, making it is not some sort of complicated thing which is the point of this post (and topic of this thread), and no, I am not disparaging anyone working as a barista (unless they are an Arts grad, sorry) because a job is a job and all jobs deserve respect

It isn’t making the coffee that’s hard, it’s being on your feet for 8 solid hours while getting assaulted by a Karen every 30 minutes and playing the memory game of 3 pumps vanilla no foam cinnamon powder vinti super choco-latte. The coffee is just a minor part of the job.

[–] WhatAmLemmy@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Tell me you've never worked in hospitality without telling me you've never worked in hospitality.

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[–] backhdlp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 1 year ago

Discord mod

[–] scottmeme@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 year ago
[–] kugel7c@feddit.de 24 points 1 year ago

Accounting and banking.

[–] Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Park ranger. There are two kinds: chill and friendly, or the kind that make you show all your documents, prove your park stickers are valid, make you repark your car, and then scold you for being too loud even though the next nearest campsite is several hundred feet away and nobody has complained and you arent even being loud...

[–] GandalfsGoochGoblin@leemyalone.org 86 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You're that camper. Turn the music off.

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[–] EliteCaster@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Meter maids (people who see if people didn't pay to park)

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[–] TawnyFroggy@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago

Chef. No I'm not calling you a special title and acting like this is the military and you are my commanding officer, we work at the Olive Garden.

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

All of them, I think.

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