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I respectfully disagree. Based on what you've said, it sounds like you've asked your friend multiple times to use something else, and there's a chance they're trying to be respectful to you by politely declining to hear more suggestions.
I've been on both ends of this, I've been pushed to look at games I could've been interested in but just didn't feel like giving a novel back to my friend as to why I'm not going to buy it, and I've tried to push friends onto Linux and that ultimately resulted in them getting pissed off with me.
It took me a while to realize, there is no wrong operating system to use, there is no wrong social platform to use. People are willing to try new things, but at their own pace and if they can see that there's an easy transition, but it's more than that.
I used to think the more people I get onto Linux, the more I'm doing my part for the market share and in turn the software gets better for me and for them, but what I failed to realize is that I was no different to a Jehovah's Witness, and I certainly came off as annoying as them to my friends. I don't care what they use now, but if they're ever interested in help on something that I'd love for them to use, I gladly help them and answer any questions they have, and so far, that's worked better anyway.
I just fear that you're going down the same path I did. I fear your friend isn't copping out of wanting ads, Chrome, iOS, etc. They just want to avoid a confrontation with you.
Wow.
It really bothers me that you've somehow interpreted and asserted a relationship with my friend that you have no way of knowing.
But I will entertain your naive ignorance for a moment. This friend that I'm talking about, we've been friends for over 20 years he gives me as much crap as I give him and our relationship is better for it.
I have literally told him that he's acting like an idiot for using these things that are actively monitoring everything that he does. His privacy is being systematically invaded and he doesn't care.
The reason he doesn't care is because he likes the stuff that he uses because it's fast and he claims there's little lag. Personally I think this is nothing more than an excuse for being lazy by not going through the steps of setting up his software so it won't be invading his privacy (as much).
At no point did I pressure him to change or attempt to persuade him to get an Android or to use Linux or anything else he is perfectly free to use whatever he feels is comfortable.
Nevertheless it's just a cop out he is acting stupid by using all of this stuff that infiltrates his privacy.
It's okay to be accepting of people and to be their friend and to also call them on their bullshit. If their feelings are hurt and it strains the relationship then its probably not a good friendship.
'I don't care' is the refrain of someone who doesn't know how to safeguard his digital interests. Easier to pretend it doesn't matter than admit to wanting to hit land, but are adrift at sea with no bearings or tools. It's not entirely your friend's fault either. Education systems have so much ground to catch up.