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I'd rather regret not having children than regret having children. I don't want to risk giving a child that life. They'd deserve a parent who really wants them. I don't think this is good advice.
Piss off.
Why the aggression??
"If you're not sure, better take the safer bet and nonconsensually burden some newly created living beings with the thousand natural shocks that flesh is heir to."
What a fucking shitty thing to say to me. Fuck off.
I say this with the assumption that you are not a troll:
I personally think it's great that you are childless because your shit attitude toward even the slightest push back illustrates your lack of patience and demonstrates how much of a shit parent you would be. If you can't handle this, you can't handle raising a child. That push back is orders of magnitude less than even a healthy three year old would give and that is so much less than a preteen/teenager. So with all dude respect (none), you fuck off.
Give shitty advice, get a shitty summary of your own shitty advice.