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Where should I look when the server is shaking and pouring my drink? (lemmy.sdf.org)

submitted 1 year ago by ephzero@lemmy.sdf.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Looking expectantly at the glass, mopping perspiration from my brow, licking my lips? A hard, grinning stare directly at the server? Eyes downcast, my hands lying dejectedly in my lap?

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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A combination of all of the above except for staring at the person serving your drink. I would recommend keeping licking your lips to a minimum unless you are trying to flirt with them.

Another completely valid option is, glance and smile to whoever else is having dinner with you, if you didn't go alone.

[–] tox_solid@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Lmao if I didn't go alone

[–] ephzero@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 year ago

Hmm, or maybe I could try glancing and smiling to my invisible dinner companions.