militant_spider

joined 1 year ago
[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Weirdly, I saw a video online about how people have been looking at videos JKR has been making and the weird coincidence that black mold has allegedly been seen in her backgrounds, given the symptoms of black mold in a person and how the appearance of it lines up with when she started spouting these “opinions.”

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

I’ve never received a political text in my life and I spent a year and a half working in politics in DC.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago

That’s definitely what I’ve done, but it recommends country daily despite my immense hatred for it.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (2 children)

How did you manage to make Spotify not a steaming pile of garbage?

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago

Unfortunately, Spotify has it set where there doesn’t appear to be a limitation on how many people can listen at once, whereas Libby still only has so many copies to share.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 12 points 8 months ago

I have an account for, eventually, marketing. It’s still widely used and so if I want my venture to be successful, I’d be foolish to avoid a place to be found, even if I find the owner to be distasteful at bare minimum.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I’d put the National Electrical Code out there. It doesn’t tell you how to do everything with electricity, like generating it, but it does give a lot of details of how to wire things safely.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

But at least he’s gone.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that’s one of those things that I know in my head, but can’t really internalize.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, it felt like more of a betrayal than when exes admitted to cheating on me. I also don’t get why it’s such a big deal. I won’t have any solo time at the festival unfortunately. But I do only work 4 days of the week, so I get a day to have the chance to express myself, thankfully.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I fully planned on ignoring that. I’ve been thinking about therapy, but no one near me accepts my insurance, so that option is out the window.

[–] militant_spider@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I’d love to be able to give her the benefit of the doubt like that, but I didn’t just come out, it’s that I’m just now starting to have the tiniest amount of confidence to consider presenting as such.

I’d never felt confident enough to really do anything in the direction of dressing outside my AGAB, but her and I talked the other night and she was encouraging and supportive. She even said I should get some clothes to wear to a music festival we’re going to. I started to look and showed her some things I was thinking, which was nothing crazy, but clearly feminine, and that’s where she said she couldn’t live this way.

I’d love to be able to talk to a therapist, either alone or together, but no one near me takes my insurance.

 

I just found out from my wife that if I continue to explore my non-binary identity outside of the confines of our house, she’s going to end up leaving me. Talk about a lose-lose scenario, fuck me. I really don’t want to hear the “you’re better off without her if she can’t be accepting” line of thinking. I get where you’d be going with that, but there’s a lot more going on beyond this wherein I need her.

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