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[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I had something vaguely (very vaguely) similar happen a bit after I started taking progesterone. At around that time, I started getting a random stiffness/weirdness/almost-pain at the front of my right leg, maybe a third of the way down. It did feel a little bit like a muscle cramp, but localized to a very specific (and consistent) area. I only ever noticed it when walking.

Touching and massaging that area didn't hurt or feel any different, and there wasn't anything visibly different either, other than it being the location of a fairly noticible vein. Since it wasn't a particularly strong sensation, I never went to the doctor. In the end, it just kind of stopped happening at some point.

This probably isn't that helpful to you, but wanted to describe my experience since it at least had a couple things in common!

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

There's definitely just some variance in terms of how much it bleeds and whether it hurts. I haven't really noticed any pattern in terms of injection site; I think there are a lot of factors. Holding the vial and maybe rolling it between your hands can help warm up the liquid, which makes it a little bit easier to both draw and inject.

The needle size will affect these things too -- the thinner the injection needle the less blood I've seen, but then it takes a little longer to inject. Do you know what gauge you're using to inject with?

I found the whole process very stressful for the first several weeks, but eventually it just became routine!

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

When you're ready to make big changes, definitely look into threading as an alternative to waxing, a lot of folk find it less painful in the long term. (But it still really stings at first! :) )

Having thick/full eyebrows can be an advantage, since you have more to work with. I have the problem that my upper eyebrows are a bit too sparse, which makes them much more difficult to shape.

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

The source is referenced in the graph (PRRI survey from 2023, as described e.g. here)

The previous years are a different org's polls (Gallups)

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 10 months ago

This is a weird grey area for me. I see it as a silly episode where bender does some reprehensible shit, sort of learns his lesson but than continues being a shitty person.

That episode really bothered me -- decades before I realized I was trans it was my least favorite episode of the entire run. It just came off as too mean spirited, and relied too heavily on the man-in-a-dress "joke".

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I mentioned this in another recent thread, but I spent a lot of time looking through reddit threads where transgirls talked about body hair.

What I thought was interesting is that:

  • while you do get a lot of responses that say it only somewhat reduces body hair
  • there were several folk who said it eventually did pretty much stop growth in many places (especially the torso), but that it took 3-4 years.
  • One thing generally agreed on was that no matter what, hair on the legs/forearms will stick around; that's typical for cis women as well. (There's a lot of variability where cis women will have noticeable hair, but almost always on the legs/forearms.)

In online spaces you'll generally see a lot more folk in the 0-2yrs range of HRT (because they're newer and have more things they want to talk about.) So my guess is that the long term reduction in body hair is larger than you'd think just skimming threads like this one.

I'm at a bit more than 2 years, and it definitely has reduced a lot on my chest/shoulders/back/butt/upper arms, but I still have to shave occasionally (especially chest/butt). For now I'm content to see if the rest goes away on its own.

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Will I be able to go more than one day without shaving my body hair without looking at my chest and arms in disgust?

I've previously been curious about this, and I waded through a lot of reddit threads looking at all the anecdotal answers.

A pretty fair number of folk said they eventually saw a large reduction in body hair on the torso especially, but that it took 3-4 years.

You'll also see a lot of folk on 2 years of HRT saying it gives only a little bit of reduction.

Hard to draw a strong conclusion here, but it seems hopeful! (I'm two years in and see some reduction, but I still have plenty of hair. Pretty sure it grows back much more slowly now, but since I didn't shave my body pre-HRT it's kind of hard to tell.)

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

What I'm pretty sure is the creator's name is watermarked in the top left -- "Sangled".

That let me find this post: https://www.deviantart.com/sangled/art/I-Made-a-Picrew-805976802

It says it was made private, but that you can still access it via this link: https://picrew.me/ja/secret_image_maker/GWQo0ayzr7bd5eKF. (I checked and it has the sunglasses and lips from your pic, so presumably it's the right one!)

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You might want to start by looking at common last names for a region you identify with.

e.g. here's a list of common surnames in England/Wales (Picked because I'm British myself)

If I had to pick from that particular list, I might go with:

  • Valentine Yates
  • Valentine May
  • Valentine Frost

(also several borderline puns such as Valentine Hart, Valentine Rose, Valentine Day)

e: Oh also, I honestly didn't think my full name flowed very well initially. But I got used to it over time!

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This doesn't seem to be normal, but I found laser maybe two order of magnitude more painful than electrolysis

From reading other's accounts, I find laser more painful than typical, and electro less painful. I once even came close to falling asleep during an electrolysis session.

I had a mix of dark+white hair when I started. Laser did get a bit more bearable over time, but I think that's just because there was almost no dark hair left to zap.

Other than the pain, laser was better on most other dimenions (My skin recovered faster, the sessions are shorter and less often, you don't have to skip shaving for a couple of days, etc.)

[–] amethyst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I guess I'm kind of confused -- by "on here" do you mean in this community, on blahaj.zone, or just on lemmy in general?

(I have not run into transphobia in any of those places, but I stick to a pretty small set of communities)

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