I'm sorry you have to work for him, and I'm doubly sorry for any women who have to work with him. He's not genuinely kind. It doesn't take an academic to see half the human population as humans deserving of the same rights as the other half.
I agree about how upsetting it's been though. My neigbour and I used to share bbq over the fence and shoot the shit about his life. Now he's got crazy eyes and legit thinks and says that my wife and I are evil witches (and whatever qanonsense his feed fed him yesterday). I miss the peace I had in my own backyard pre-2016, but here we are.
btw, a lot of effort goes into the misogynist fascist takeover of our public spaces (including online). None of this just happened because (for example, one genesis myth is) low income white boys were bored on the internet. They've been groomed for hate and it's all deliberate.
These hackers have fantastic values, and the effort they put into this made the world a slightly better place. Good on em.
(next on the block: Jordan Peterson's School for Very Logical Manbabies)