SamanthaLie

joined 1 year ago
 

My husband got a packer and the first think he had to do was come and smack me with it.

 

I'm wondering what the group age range looks like. I'm 35 for example.

No obligations if you dont want to post you age. I wish lemmy had post so it would be a little more anonymous.

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

^ this person gets it

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)
[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

This might be a odd awnser but idk why I started transitioning. I have always felt like a women even before I realized thing like gender and sexuality. Fun enough before starting hormones I was exclusively into women and then I started and became Bi. Now I'm marrying a man so what a rollercoaster. I will say I am just more comfortable with my self and other since transitioning.

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Oh trust me I am at the point where the swelling has gone down and the sutures are all most gone and its amazing how normal it looks. In a year you wouldn't even know. I will say pictures on line are usually of people early on and is a little miss leading of how everything will look in the end.

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Interesting our colors are different purple was the first one for me and orange is the last.

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Oh the first few weeks was nothing but pain and pressure. But it gets better.

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (8 children)

I had my surgery September 21st. So sadly I am actually unable to preform at the moment. But do I want. I wasn't expecting this. Funny I went way longer before surgery without sex so its not like I'm just frustrated because I can't.

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Sorry my phone corrected meh to men. I am MTF and had bottom surgery about a month ago. I am still 2 months away from actually having being able to have sex. But I have noticed my sex drive has increase and I actually think about it now where as before surgery I really didn't care for sex or think much of it.

 

This might because I have more confidence in myself now and the act is now being done using the correct parts. I'm just surprised how much my needs have increase because before surgery I was meh to sex.

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What physical therapy are you doing?

[–] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

This is the biggest aspect of being a transwomen that is just plain hard because unlike ciswomen we are not normally given our teenage years to experiment and learn. Most of use are adults that have to just go from not wearing make up to having normal make up routine. Because of this any mistake to us feels like a flag we are a trans.

 

I am a week and half from having bottom surgery. The surgery went perfectly and the healing is going way better then my doctor normal see. I just wanted to come on here and say ladies thinking about surgery feel free to ask your questions?

Surgery: Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty

Surgeon: Dr. Gerhard Mundinger

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