DreamySweet

https://join-lemmy.org/news/2023-06-17_-_Update_from_Lemmy_after_the_Reddit_blackout

We are individuals with our own opinions. If you disagree with these, it is no problem! You can still freely use the Lemmy software on different instances. If you host your own instance, we have no control over it at all and are unable to censor what users say.

Regarding development, we are happy to collaborate with anyone who is willing to put in the work, regardless of politics.

That was written by the same person. It seems they are willing to put aside politics to make something great for everyone.

The pending thing just means that it hasn't been able to update the subscriber count on fedia yet. On your instance, you're properly subscribed. New posts should show up as they get posted but old posts might take a while.

I found it on my instance by searching for https://fedia.io/m/firefox.