BothsidesistFraud

joined 10 months ago

Thanks for the explanation and link

[–] BothsidesistFraud@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Your home instance is lemmy.world, which is outright defederated with all but lemmy.ml

Still learning. How are you here from lemmy.today if lemmy.world is defederated (maybe I don't know what defederated means)

 

Primarily I'm wondering if certain instances have reputations that might color what people think about my community just by virtue of it being hosted on a particular instance.

There's also the question of instance-wide content moderation or something, not like I'm trying to be edgy, but like some instances might not like curse words or discussions about heavy topics like suicide, or something.

Also I'm wondering if it's somehow harder for people from other instances to find communities (I understand that subscribing is easy, but finding may be different?)

Appreciate details...

Good, was sick last week and now feeling a lot better so it's like the world is open with possibilities again.

Regarding the sickness, I was at like 70% for a full week. Not enough to actually lay around and be lazy all day but sick enough that I couldn't really stomach doing anything of importance.

[–] BothsidesistFraud@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The "source" request is also annoying because it's like, dude we're just chatting here, no I'm not going to respond like this is some academic debate.

I had one of his books of short stories when I was a teen (The Cyberiad) and loved it...meaning to read more of his work

[–] BothsidesistFraud@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

That's true only if homeless people make zero noise, do not act or behave eccentrically, do not bother other customers, do not have offensive odors, immediately cede their seat to a customer who arrives, somehow don't make through their presence prospective customers believe the shop is too crowded, etc. Do you think even actual customers who are not mentally disturbed or addicted can fulfill this bar you've set by saying "costs nothing"?

Warming is a canard, every street homeless person can get warm at a church or shelter. In NYC you can 311 a city department and they'll go offer the person a ride to a shelter anywhere in the city in a van. Their average time is <1 hour. They can walk into any library in the city.

I encounter homeless every day and resent dumb online joke, these are individuals who have serious problems and, as stated, there is a reason even public services find it hard to serve these populations.

There's also a reason neither you nor I regularly invite street homeless into our homes.

If you don't like megacorp there are 1000 better ways you can argue it than saying "they should let homeless in to hang out". Choosing the argument that you have chosen, just sounds ridiculous.

[–] BothsidesistFraud@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

I know you're just circlejerking here so discussion is probably pointless, but there are many ways to serve the community and providing a quiet, nicely ambient place (aspirational goals, only met sometimes in reality) to sit or work for a few hours, for the price of a $3 coffee is one. I live in New York and for just over the price of a subway ride I can get wifi, a desk to work, outlets and a decently comfortable chair, and a restroom, and I can hang out there a while.

Serving the homeless in public places is notoriously difficult to get right, as most state and local governments experience demonstrates. Why we'd expect a cafe company to do a good job as well as meet its other goals is confusing.

Read this many years ago and enjoyed. Great recommendation in the spirit of this thread (for anyone who has not read it)

Most people near a Starbucks are near a better coffee shop or cafe that's independently owned.

[–] BothsidesistFraud@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Why would it possibly be on Starbucks to provide places for homeless people to hang out for hours. This should be a public function.

 

Any topic is good. Don't care about format or where it's published as long as I can access it (substack, random PDF, journal, etc). Looking for deep and rare thought, but essay length for a short reading.

EDIT: Also I am particularly looking for stuff not as much in online or nerd culture.

 

I swear sometimes I feel like I'm reading a bad newspaper comment section, like everyone is a poorly trained AI that just spouts default politically-oriented replies. The New York Times comment section for any given topic (not just current events, also culture etc) is way more interesting than most of it here.

Note this also applies to a LOT of reddit but there are some subreddits that are more interesting. A lot of them have their own circlejerk but at least when I first find them the "game" is new so I'm eager to read what people have to say.

Where on Lemmy is the actually good or interesting discussion happening, please, I really want something better, I am eager to contribute too, it's one of my resolutions for 2025.

Two things can be true:

Trump is bad and useless.

DEI programs are bad and useless.

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