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When I was on Reddit I felt like my opinion didn’t matter. But here it just feels more open and free.

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[–] Southrydge@vlemmy.net 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was a straight up lurker on reddit, I feel like this environment makes me wanna be more active, reminds me of the old days before websites were a cash grab and there was true communities

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[–] kalipike@lemmy.one 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh, absolutely! I did a lot of consuming on Reddit, and only participated in a couple specific communities.

Here, I feel far more inclined to actively participate.

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[–] borlax@lemmy.borlax.com 6 points 1 year ago

About the same, however engagement here seems to be easier and better all around. Have only run into 1 or 2 pedantic assholes as opposed to reddit being like 80% pedantic assholes.

[–] martini1992@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I am, absolutely, less intimidating. Remember there are literally dozens of us.

[–] BumpingFuglies@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I was a lurker on Reddit. I had less than 500 Karma when I deleted my 12-year-old account a couple weeks ago.

I've already been more active on Lemmy than I was my entire time on Reddit. Everything here just feels more genuine.

[–] dispenser@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think so. I feel the camaraderie is much higher here as well, since we’re all refugees together in a sense, but also part of a great new thing.

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[–] Daisychan@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Yes! English is not my first language, so commenting on Reddit made me nervous. I find Lemmy to be more forgiving (if that makes sense?) as well.

[–] rm_dash_r_star@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

I've been spending more time here. Could be the newness factor or maybe it's just more engaging. It's going to be a lot different only because of the smaller population. I think Reddit may have been too big for its own good.

[–] Aarlog@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I wouldn't say I'm more active in terms of posting and commenting, though I wasn't too active on Reddit the last few years to begin with. Though the fact I haven't logged into my Reddit account of 10 years since checking out Lemmy speaks to how at-home I feel here, even after basically giving up one of the sites I used the most in the past decade or so.

[–] nvm@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Might be a case of "grass is always greener." I feel like more eyes and engagement happens for my posts and comments on Reddit. Over here it feels empty yet full, which is weird.

[–] Pechente@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Really? For me it's the opposite effect. You usually don't get crazy amounts of engagement like on reddit where a post can have hundreds of upvotes and comments but on average, I feel like I'm getting more engagement and more valuable engagement.

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[–] llama@midwest.social 5 points 1 year ago

I check Lemmy multiple times per day now!

[–] Twinkipastry@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm certainly not as depressed after scrolling here as opposed to redditt. The magic pixie wranglers at Lemmy don't seem to be as centered on eyeballs on the screen sucking your soul while you're doom scrolling. I'll take it as a win.

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[–] Valravn@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

I need some more time, I am pretty shy both irl and online and I kinda liked hiding behind tens of other users. But maybe I will grow to like this

[–] Xer0@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The issue with reddit is that it turns everyone into know it all assholes. The discussion is absolutely horrendous over there. Here it's so much better and more sensible.

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[–] Binzy_Boi@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

I used to use Reddit through throwaway accounts. Was never a regular user, and moved away from it over a year ago now. Just stopped posting to socials a lot.

Mental health has gotten better, and I've been more active here than I ever was on Reddit because I just enjoy the vibes the place gives me overall.

[–] Jode@midwest.social 4 points 1 year ago

Yes because we need to drive the content machine here otherwise this place looks stale

[–] CMDR_Horn@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Yes. I'm looking forward to more original content rather that all of the reposts from reddit. I'm not sure when that tipping point will be, but I hope it doesn't have to do anything with poo.

[–] dewritoninja@pawb.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Haven't touched reddit in 2 weeks

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[–] ickplant@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Absolutely, I'm way more active on here. Reddit is so oversaturated, it's impossible to comment on a post before it already has hundreds of comments unless you have time to sit in New and comment as submissions come in. Here, I feel like someone will actually read what I write. Thanks for reading!

[–] tr00st@lemmy.tr00st.co.uk 4 points 1 year ago

In the 13 years I've had a Reddit account, I made 40 comments, and 4 posts.

In the 15 days I've had a Lemmy account, I've made 28 comments and 1 post.

Now I wouldn't want to be one for extrapolating from data of different timescales, but...

[–] Secret300@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

100%. I've always been a lurker but on lemmy, and I don't know why, but I feel more comfortable interacting and making comments. Haven't made a post yet. Maybe one day

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 year ago

Tip for when Lemmy becomes bigger: Find a niche community that's big enough you get seen, but small enough you get noticed.

[–] ellesper@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel more obligated to contribute here because I want Lemmy as a whole to be more active. More content = more users.

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[–] WheeGeetheCat@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Im more active when I'm here and I spend less time online overall. I spend less time angry.

Although probably here still a bit too much. I should go touch grass but to fair it's over 110 F outside and I have to be near my laptop for work so, here I sit.

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[–] aski3252@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I was only active on certain small subreddits, here I am active in more different communities.

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[–] jtk@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 year ago

I didn't even have an account on reddit for the last few years because I was getting too active and I could feel the karma cravings so I just deleted my account and lurked using old.reddit.com.

[–] amoroso@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Yes, to put my money where my mouth is.

In early 2022, a few months prior to the first rumors Elon Musk might acquire Twitter, I left both Twitter and Reddit for the Fediverse, making it a point to contribute a tiny bit of the content and interaction that help platforms reach critical mass.

In case you're wondering, I left Twitter because the algorithms had made me essentially invisible. There was no point posting or interacting there.

I feel like the nays will be underrepresented bc of selection bias so I'll be one.

So far I have not had the same engagement. But I am convinced that is bc I have yet to get used to the jerboa UI/UX. I am more active once I feel at home, was the same for reddit, is the same for lemmy.

Its great that you feel more impactful on lemmy! I think on reddit you either feel the way you have or are constantly being called a slur (say "tankie") and removed/banned left and right.

So far lemmy seems way more authentic to me. Less capital interest, PR companies, bots, astroturf, think tank/gov-adjacent hacks. I like that.

Alos writing this made me realize my mode of commenting is still very much a reddit one

[–] briongloid@aussie.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My local cities daily thread is more active than it what's left on Reddit, despite the Reddit community having 600k subs. 410 comments on the Reddit thread, 480 on the lemmy community thread.

It's been like this daily.

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[–] Thurgo@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Most of my Reddit commenting was done on threads for people looking for advice in one of my hobbies. I generally had a good experience giving feedback here since most people in the subreddit were level headed. Sometimes you got the occasional asshole parroting the usual online "best way to do something" that goes against some people's actual real life experience that is being shared.

I didn't really make any meaningful (non joke) comments outside of this subreddit since I didn't feel like getting some dick in my notifications trying to start a fight over whatever I posted. Sometimes I didn't mind battling the dicks in the hobby subreddit since people lurking can actually learn or get a different perspective from "No, you shouldn't take what's in a listicle as fact. Here is my experience with this."

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