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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[–] r4tzt4r@lemmy.ml 30 points 2 years ago (2 children)

A little bit. What I hate is losing the communities related to my hobbies. Reddit is/was very very helpful for me. Finding new music, finding new games, discussing movies and TV, learning about weird movies or cult shows, sharing my stuff to people that find it cool... It was 11 years of that. I needed that site, so many very helpful posts. I hope whatever comes next is better. For now I'm here, waiting to see what happens.

[–] lhx@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Preach. I get that entirely.

[–] Thanks4Nothing@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 years ago

I have really been diving deep into a lot of niche hobbies and Redd** had such a great community for them. I have no problem starting over for the sake of justice, but it is going to take a long time to build them up.

[–] noisy@lemmy.ml 21 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I think it will hit harder when I want to search for something on google and have to avoid adding reddit onto the end.

[–] renlok@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 years ago (4 children)

It's so frustrating that I often have to do this just avoid getting a lot of spam sites from google when I'm searching for something niche. I feel like the internet is getting progressively worse for user experience.

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[–] supermario182@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Reddit hasn't really been the same for a long time anyways. I liked the feel of Reddit in the old days better, and this kind of has the same vibe

[–] JohannesOliver@beehaw.org 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

It has felt pretty toxic more recently. Often I’d see something and end up just leaving to do something else, I’ve been describing it as the β€œtwo-minutes hate” internally for a while now.

There are some good communities and I’ve done a good job of trimming what I subscribe to, but that β€œpopular” button is too tempting.

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[–] Kory@lemmy.ml 17 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Actually I feel excited, because Lemmy has sparked a new interest in news aggregators and the fediverse and I'm enjoying my time here a lot.

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[–] thefloatingpoint@feddit.de 15 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

Kinda. But I don’t care about Reddit itself. I care about a few communities and the people there. I know a couple of them are here. But we are scattered and trying to figure out this site.

Time will tell if this sticks or not. I pretty much hope so.

If someone finds a Lemmy equivalent to r/Grimdank or r/40klore please let me know.

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[–] PitzNR@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago (4 children)

No, actually, I used reddit just to pass time, never really engaged in the community, and without this whole debacle I wouldn't have found out about lemmy and the fediverse as a whole, which is really exciting and a new part of the internet (for me) that feels like a breath of fresh air after years of everything being so centralized around very few companies, I'm getting a vibe of the internet from 15-20 years ago, exploring the wild west of the internet.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 years ago (18 children)

12 years of reddit. It will take some time to adjust but I also switched from google to duckduckgo years ago after decades of google, and then too never looked back. Lemmy does need a LOT of work, still, but so did reddit in the early days..

To those working on Lemmy, please don't fuck this up for us. Don't be a spez.

[–] crazyminner@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago (6 children)

The nice thing about Lemmy that Reddit never had is that it can only improve in ways that the community wants! Not more putting up with asinine decisions from people who only see us as dollar signs.

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[–] thatonedude1210@beehaw.org 14 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I cared more about the niche communities than I did about Reddit as a whole. Once those move over here, I'll be just fine.

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[–] RickyRigatoni@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I view this as a fresh start. Cut off the old and grow a new one. Just like a gecko. I spent a lot of time on reddit but I can't say I ever actually connected with another person on it, there were just too many people on even the small subs I joined. Maybe lemmy will bring back the small internet forum feel and we'll actually be able to stand out from the crowd better and actually get to know each other.

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[–] thomas@lemmy.douwes.co.uk 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children)

I hate reddit. But it feels like the library of Alexandria burning down (yea I know). All those google search results and educational subreddits that are shutting down forever, and because they are too small reddit won't force open them again.
A lot are in the pushshift archive, but that cuts of at 2022. Also, it doesn't include a lot of the smaller subreddits.
I have had my PC running 24/7 with multiple VPNs to avoid rate limits downloading as much as I can before the API dies, but with some blackouts moving forward a day I have already missed a few.
Like many others, I would often add "reddit" to the end of my searches to get better results, half the websites on web searches now are either AI generated, copies or are completely AD ridden websites that ask you to turn off your AD blocker.

[–] FaygoBoozer@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I think this is honestly the biggest issue. Web search has been garbage for years, with legit the only saving grace being Reddit users sharing their knowledge. This is gonna have a horrible effect on producing good search results.

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[–] Homo_Stupidus@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Reddit has answered almost every question I've ever had for years. The potential loss of all the knowledge is my greatest concern.

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Man, I'm grieving a little. Anger, denial, the whole gamut really.

Mostly anger tbh. We all knew it was coming, once they started moving towards an IPO, but I think we hoped that it wouldn't be this bad. The way spez handled it all makes it even worse. Just shitting on all the mods and users that made the IPO possible in the first place.

It would not surprise me if there's something in the news about a bunch of angry ex redditors going project mayhem on him. The whole "do not fuck with us" thing kinda fits here, and there are some crazy people on reddit

[–] ratz30@beehaw.org 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

It's a bit devastating to lose such a good resource. So many communities for niche games and hobbies that I won't be able to comfortably access without my 3rd party app. I just hope Lemmy continues to grow and fill those niches for me again.

[–] Captain_Pieces@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Yes, I'm really upset about it. It feels like i've had so much taken away from me over my life and I was always willing to accept it and move on, but to see something so simple and innocent get taken away seems just so pointless and depressing. Like why am I not allowed to just have my little shitposting community? is it too much that I get to smile without some capitalist coke rat getting a payday? I hate this so much and there is nothing I can do about it. I will mourn for awhile, until I cant even remember why im upset anymore, and when I wake up tommorrow the world will be just a little bit worse. it always is.

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[–] ganbaro@feddit.de 11 points 2 years ago

Nah

Lemmy feels similar enough

I experienced Reddit taking over BBs, Facebook taking over MySpace, the death of Netlog...so much change and I'm too young to have experienced BBS and Usenet in their prime even

It always expected reddit going to shit at some point. Commercial platform without open standards = pain once management makes poor strategic decisions

[–] flamingseaturtle@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Oh man I’m so heart broken about it, and slightly anxiety filled since I spent a lot of my time on there. It just feels off to me and I’m not sure how these next few weeks are gonna go but I will not Go back after the shit u/spez pulled during that AMA which is no surprise. I’m happy to be apart of this website, it’s just going to feel so weird to me for a while. Spent 14 years on that site. I slightly feel like a piece of my heart is dying with it πŸ˜†

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[–] TerraByt3@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Yeah, Reddit had a lot of communities that I loved interacting with and finding advice with. I do hope Lemmy gains enough traction to replace Reddit.

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[–] imkmiaw@lemmy.fmhy.ml 11 points 2 years ago

Tbh I feel more heartbroken about the people that worked so hard to make those 3rd party apps for years just to get fucked by some dude who wanted a bit more money.

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

really sad about this. lemmy won't be the same. we're also losing 15+ year of history with all the people purging posts and comments..

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[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

No, because you're all here, and hopefully together we'll start building healthier, more tight-knit communities.

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[–] nebula42@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 years ago

im gonna, miss it, I don't wanna leave, I don't wanna go, It feels like reddit is breaking up with me rather than vice versa. As much as reddit sucked, it was the one thing consistent in my life that I could always go back to when things were rough. I just hope that the people and culture of subreddits that are closing down are going to migrate here.

[–] GrouchyLady@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

I'm anxious to see what happens in the next few days and weeks. I think Reddit will bring the big subreddits back online with new mods if they have to. The smaller subreddits, though, may not be worth the effort to Reddit, and those are the ones I'll miss the most. I'm hoping some make their way here, but I suspect many won't.

I'm glad to be here, and I'm looking forward to see what this brings.

[–] ForbiddenRoot@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 years ago

Nah, over the years I have seen many discussions sites rise and fall, and you tend to get over it. Slashdot, Fark, Digg, and countless PHP-based boards for instance. I am happy that there is a real possibility that a decentralized mechanism for discussions is catching on again. To me it's somewhat like Usenet back in the day, but prettier.

[–] Quintus@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Not Reddit but I feel sad for Aaron Swartz. What a monster his creation became. Thankfully Lemmy exists to fill Reddit's place.

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[–] lhx@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Absolutely. I was browsing Apollo tonight like I do many evenings for a decade+. And noticed it was June 12 GMT (I thought I had more time!). So, sadness, nostalgia, anger at reddit leadership, etc., but excited to find a FOSS substitute. And having it built at least in part on rust is amazing.

[–] Eggyhead@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

I’m just a little frustrated that a lot of quick search solutions will only be on Reddit for a while. And asking people for help here might not be as effective as it was with Reddit. That said, like many others, I’m kind of excited about this new frontier.

[–] maccam912@midwest.social 9 points 2 years ago (2 children)

My biggest worry is a fracturing of some communities. For tech support for various companies, different niche academic communities, etc. that had a free and easy place to have discussions instead of running their own forum. If we end up with those groups splitting and half staying on Reddit, half coming here, that's a bummer all around for someone who previously knew where they would find the best info.

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No, it was going to happen, reddit has been becoming horrible since 2015. It could not die fast enough, except now the problem is lemmy is not ready. There will not be another exodus, the center of mass shifts to lemmy, or it goes back to reddit.

[–] Speckle@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (5 children)

I wasn't too cut up about it until 20 minutes ago when I realised I can never go back to a specific subreddit and will lose all the information there. I've copied some basic stuff but I'll really miss asking a question about this fairly obscure subject then getting a detailed answer in minutes/hours. Really going to miss that 😭

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[–] LordPain@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

With how good the third party apps were, probably yes, to be very honest.

I love the browser version of lemmy but the app available simply isn't good enough. I hope the third party reddit app devs make one for lemmy as well!

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[–] Swimmerman96@beehaw.org 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I have been on Reddit for the last 10 years, and a 3rd party app user for all of it. It feels like the end of an era, and that will be sad no matter what. I won't miss the vast majority of subreddits, especially the bigger ones. It's the smaller more niche subreddits I'm going to have a hard time not returning to and I'm hoping to find similar communities elsewhere.

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[–] ManateeManny@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago

I've been meaning to get off Reddit and social media for a while, just not happy with the posts on there and the way things are handled. I have a stuffed animal manatee named Manny and I love him dearly, and all other manatees to keep me happy and hopefully everyone here. Love to all !

[–] chippy@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago

9 years on Reddit and it actually felt quite cathartic to click the yes delete account! In the last 6 months that’s Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and now Reddit gone. I’ll miss some of the stuff but not enough to want to stay.

[–] crazyminner@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

After going to mastadon from twitter, and now to Lemmy from Reddit, I feel like the fediverse is the future of the internet. The internet was always a very democratic place. It only makes sense it ended up this way. When people can choose a different option at the flick of a wrist it makes it hard to keep autocracies.

[–] cryomancer20x6@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I think that the problem was that they tried to make it "social media." Forums are not social media. Full stop. They tried to make all engagement a thing, tried to spam ads, and bully people onto one mobile platform. That said, yeah - I'm a bit heartbroken. It makes me sad to want to leave subs that I've been a part of since the Digg migration.

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[–] jordanlund@lemmy.one 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Not really, I mean, yeah, my equivalent reddit account is 15 years old, is karma rich, one of my comments was added to reddits filing to the FCC in favor of net neutrality (hey, how does this new policy comport with net neutrality BTW?), and I've been added to a bunch of the special/high karma subs...

But what it boils down to is reddit has become hostile to me as a user. They don't want my traffic? My top 1% of karma accounts? That's cool. ~~Fark~~ -> ~~Digg~~ -> ~~Reddit~~ -> Lemmy or something else.

When your business model is user supplied links to user generated content in user created and moderated forums, that means your business model is INFINITELY replaceable.

Just getting my feet wet with Lemmy and Jerboa, let's see how this shakes out.

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[–] spaceghoti@lemmy.one 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I am a reddit user from the Great Digg Exodus of 2008. Fifteen years of content and over a million karma that I'm going to overwrite at the end of the month. I'm going to bring as many people with me as I can before I go. I hope all three of them enjoy lemmy.

Yeah, this feels a lot like a bad breakup. I've explored reddit alternatives before, but this time it's for good.

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[–] dmtalon@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Ive spent 98% of my time here in Lemmy vs. 2% since last night. I'm not deleting my reddit account just yet, but, overall like what I am seeing here. I'm also just trying to figure everything out here.

There are issues/worries about what happens when an instance goes away, where's that content go? Duplicate/fragmented communities on multiple instances.

I'm more worried about losing the CONTENT that we created on Reddit, etc as a historic/research tool if reddit fails completely. Lot of content with people helping others.

I see/saw a lot of talk about wiping your data before leaving... I'm sure if that happened in larg volumes, they have backups of that content. No idea what legal ramifications there are with restoring them though.

I'm in a wait and see, but w/o RIF I'm gonna be hard pressed to use reddit on my phone, and if old. Goes away that might end it for me.

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[–] jon@lemmy.tf 7 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I had 13 years on reddit so it was a nice run. Seems like every online platform dies at some point, so it was going to happen sooner or later.

[–] ShadowAether@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago

The thing that's missing here most is the niche communities (I'm talking about like the ended 10 years ago tv shows and people are still posting about them). On the other hand, I noticed while most countries have 1 or 2 communities, my country already has at least 7 for specific locations and people still want to make more so it feels very much like home already

[–] AmazingTim22@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago

I think a lot of us are going to be going through reddit-withdrawal/detox over the next month. It's going to be tough.

[–] vodnik@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I've been on reddit since the diggification. And to be honest, I miss the people. Reddit itself? I don't miss it at all.

But lemmy is turning out to be a nice place. Reminds me a lot of the old days of the internet, which I hope that we can some day go back to.

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[–] antony@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Right now, yeah. It had become part of my daily routine, and it's challenging. With a little effort, I'll release myself from their evil grasp.

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