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Half of the time I look forward to my death, it doesn't scare me since I don't see the real point of my life, what scares me is if my agony would be slow and painful.

But then what? I just stop existing and it's like I fell asleep? Do I see light? Darkness? Nothing? What is nothing?

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[–] ShiverMeTimbers@lemm.ee 1 points 5 days ago

You wake up outside the matrix.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 59 points 1 week ago

The connections in my brain that made me me will fail and I will cease to exist, same as before I existed.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 34 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Nothing. Was in the hospital for a heart attack last year, my heart stopped for 8 seconds. I was 100% completely unaware. Was told later what had happened.

[–] wisely@feddit.org 22 points 1 week ago

Over 4 minutes for me. Can confirm, no concept of time. I slowly became aware of a noise that turned out to be my own breath from chest compressions. Then I became present again.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Some days are more challenging than others, I spent the last two weeks with the flu and WANTED to die. ;)

[–] Spiderwort@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Some people don't remember their dreams. Some do.

[–] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Anesthesia is different from sleep.

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago

I'll be in the same place I was before I was born.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 week ago

The ~40% of me that are Microbes are going to have a field day.

[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 19 points 1 week ago

You become what you were before you were conceived.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Its a state equivalent to before you were born. Its feels exactly as it felt back then. That is the nothing.

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[–] TheBananaKing@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The mind is what the brain does .

When the brain stops doing, the mind stops being.

There is no darkness, there isn't even nothing, because there's no you to experience it.

Where do the ripples on a pond go if the water dries up? There are no ripples, because there's no longer a pond for them to be on.

[–] TedZanzibar@feddit.uk 5 points 1 week ago

There is no darkness, there isn't even nothing, because there's no you to experience it.

It's such a weird concept to get our heads around but this is it, and I personally find it quite comforting. It's just very hard to explain why!

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 13 points 1 week ago

Either of two things:

Nothing. However, I don't think most people quite grasp the meaning of that. Kind of how they think that before the big bang there was just empty space. No, empty space is not nothing. There's no empty space, there's no time, there's nothing. By definition it cannot be experienced. Experience simply ends. It's as if nothing ever happened. The universe could just as well have never existed.

The more optimistic theory is that consciousness is in a way immortal. You can only experience being, not not-being. It's kind of how when you go under general anesthesia and then wake up it's quite unlike sleeping. When you've slept you have the sense of time having passed in between. With general anesthesia this is not the case. One moment you feel sleepy and then you wake up in another room. From your subjective experience you never lost consciousness to begin with. Whose to say that something similar doesn't happen with death. Instead of experience ending it just moves elsewhere. It's a pretty difficult concept to explain but it's somewhat similar to the idea of quantum immortality.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

When you die, your brain dumps dopamine and you enter a euphoric state in the brief moments before you’re technically dead.

Time is relative for every entity, according to the theory of general relativity. I posit that as you die, your personal timeline extends to infinity. The state of euphoria is therefore permanent to you, the experiencer. It’s not heaven, but for you it might feel like it.

Additionally, every neuron fires as your brain gives out, so during that personal eternity your life is "flashing before your eyes". If this reflection on your life fills you with contentment, that is heaven. If it fills you with shame and regret, that is hell.

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 9 points 1 week ago

My family will be very sad.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago

When you die you simply wake up in the nearest universe where you didn’t die.

Death is an objective event. It never happens subjectively.

In everyone else’s experience, you die. Your body becomes a corpse and you are no longer there.

In your own experience, you don’t die. The gun doesn’t fire. The car crash never happens. You somehow walk away from the train derailment. Your cancer clears up.

Death exists for other people, never for the self.

Eventually, you become the only living human. You are eternal.

After millions of years, you accumulate enough power to create new people. You do this so you don’t have to be alone. You are now God.

[–] brygphilomena@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

What I think or what I hope?

I think it will be just like before I was born. I will become nothing.

I hope that I'm wrong and I will be reunited with my loved ones.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 week ago

Sounds like someone elses problem at that point.

[–] nichtburningturtle@feddit.org 7 points 1 week ago
[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The game will be over, I will remove the VR headset, and continue living my real life. I’m sure in time the memories will fade.

[–] RobotZap10000@feddit.nl 6 points 1 week ago

You've lived a long life, but a settlement needs your help! Here, I'll mark it on your map.

[–] Soleos@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

I know that the people who love you will miss you.

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Do you remember what it was like before you were conceived? Like that.

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[–] Quexotic@infosec.pub 6 points 1 week ago

I like to think it's this... Kurtzgesagt - The Egg

Here's a link to the original short story https://galactanet.com/oneoff/theegg_mod.html

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's just nothing.

Asking what you experience after death is a nonsensical question, you don't experience anything at all.

What did you see/hear/feel/experience back in 1066 during the Norman Conquest of England?

You weren't there, you weren't alive then, so you didn't experience anything at all.

That same sort of non-experience is what awaits you after death.

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[–] AmidFuror@fedia.io 6 points 1 week ago

I have an opinion on this, but it saps all the fun out of the discussion when the question is asked by someone who gets no enjoyment out of their life. I'd rather you get professional mental health than have a bunch of people on the Internet assure you that death will be the end of your suffering.

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago

You don't experience anything, not even a sense of 'nothing'.

[–] DragonsInARoom@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

You're dead

[–] PrimarilyPrimate@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

I think that it is exactly the same as before you were born.

[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 5 points 1 week ago

Either nothing or everything.

I'm pretty sure your bodily functions all shut down and then you're incapable of experiencing whatever happens to your cadaver. Some people might be a little sad about it for a while and then the same will happen to them.

[–] 11111one11111@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

I've died. It's a permanent state of unconsciousness. No thoughts. No dreams. No life flashing before your eyes. Just nothing.

[–] Guttural@jlai.lu 5 points 1 week ago

My conscience ends.

If the materialists are right, the atoms I'm made of end up reforming my conscience into another mortal coil as a matter of statistics.

If they're wrong and there's a spirit that's not bound to the material world, I end up living inside another hull that accepts consciousness. Repeatedly. Could be human, alien, or that of an animal.

If that happens, I want to live in a world that respects all consciousness.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 5 points 1 week ago

I believe it's very similar to falling asleep, and you may even tap into a dreamlike state of consciousness depending on your circumstances. Eventually, your self awareness stops and fades into nothingness. What you see if anything at all, and what your perception of time is or how self aware of the situation you are will depend a lot on the circumstances of the death and your individual make up, the same way not everyone dreams the same way or even remembers dreaming at all.

[–] rbn@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 week ago

I think i'll just stop existing at some point. Maybe there'll be some pseudo visual sensations ('light') as I die but other than that I don't expect any kind of 'after life'.

Half of the time I look forward to my death, it doesn't scare me since I don't see the real point of my life

I think we shouldn't be scared of death but still try to enjoy our limited lifetime as much as we can. If you feel depressed continously, I can only advise you to seek help. Life shouldn't be like that. If you have friends or family that you trust, tell them how you feel. In case you don't, that's okay. You may reach out to professional organisations or helplines instead. :)

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Etterra@discuss.online 5 points 1 week ago

Sweet, silent oblivion.

If I'm wrong I'm gonna go full on Karen on whatever jackass is in charge.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Whatever it was like before you were born. You return to that, literally nothing to be afraid of

[–] HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone 4 points 1 week ago

you become dead

[–] sntx@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The simlutation terminates.

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[–] WrenFeathers@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Wait… you all don’t know?

[–] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 week ago

From my perspective, the universe – including myself – ceases to exist.

From the perspective of the universe: entropy.

Whatever happens, I just hope it’s graceful and as painless for others as possible.

Darkness as your eyes close -> Probably some cool shit as your brain functions start shutting down -> literally nothing.

[–] Whateley@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago

I don't know what - if anything- comes after. But I do like the Buddhist analogy of death being like a wave falling back into the sea. The wave is gone but the matter and energy that constituted it survives and are eventually repurposed for the formation of another wave. Or a bird, or a tree, or some other part of the natural world.

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

"What happens when you die" - I assume you mean after you die (not during), and to your consciousness, your awareness rather than your body.

The same as before you came to be. Not like you fell asleep; you're gone.

[–] Breve@pawb.social 4 points 1 week ago

Nothing, just like the thing you experienced before you were born.

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