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You should take a look at https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_US_states_by_minimum_wage and see what the minimum wage is in the state you are visiting. The minimum wage where I am is one of the highest in the nation so I donβt tip anymore.
Edit: I am aware many states have below federal minimum for tipped employees. My point was if theyβre visiting one of the highest states, they can fairly guilt-free forgo tipping. Anything below that, and it requires more finesse. Regardless, I have worked in a state for federal minimum wage as a dishwasher and watched servers make the same wage and bring in hundreds of dollars in tips. They would then tip the head chef $10 and leave nothing for the prep cooks and dishwashers so tipping is inherently flawed, and I still discourage it in most cases. The servers absolutely do not work harder than everyone in the kitchen, but they get all the credit when things run smoothly.
But a lot of states pay less for tipped labor. Which is why tipping culture started in the first place, and this list doesn't show how much tipped workers make.
Most states in the US have separate lower minimum wages for tipped workers, with a federal minimum of $2.13/hour.
This. There are a few states that make paying tipped workers less than minimum wage. So you'dnewed to cross-reference that list with the minimum wage list.
Don't be an asshole. Your server may be making $3/hr.
I actually just looked into this, and no state in America can legally pay an employee less than $7.25/hr. If you as the employee don't make enough in tips to make your wage at least $7.25/hr, the employer has to pay beyond the $2.13/hr to make sure you always make at least $7.25/hr, not that $7.25/hr is even remotely a livable wage in 2023β¦
Sorry, that's not the case. I guess you don't have any friends who work as wait staff..
Highest in the nation is still far too low.