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You're asking a completely subjective question about yourself to other people. What possible answer could you hope to get?
Possibly a series of subjective answers that display a pattern. You pedantic twat...
A pattern which he may or may not follow...
You're right i should discount the experience of everyone else in the world.
Ive never been on fire, everyone that has and survived hasn't enjoyed it but maybe i shoukd burn myself just in case
Non sequitur, strawman.
A fire causes harm, your opinion on how unpleasant it is won't change that. On the other hand, the only person who could possibly know your own romantic preferences is you.
Maybe other people have a similar initial experience, but changed as they aged and therefore can impart some wisdom.