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is there a limit to the point that i will find women attractive? (aussie.zone)

submitted 11 months ago by Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Context, I'm 30 now and i will find women my age and up attractive, but 15 years ago a 35 year old women would never have been attractive to me.

As I've aged younger women are less and less attractive (thankfully)

But when I'm 60 will 60 year old women be attractive to me?

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[–] ryan@the.coolest.zone 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

On the other side, as someone younger it's hard to date people much older, as they start casually talking about what they did during various wars, or comparing the COVID pandemic to the black plague, and I've just got zero frame of reference to connect.

Everyone much older I've met has been just delightful (I assume the rude ones eventually get murdered by their local townsfolk) but it's just so hard to make that genuine connection when your life experiences are so different, you know?