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Would you consider the anonymous sale of nudes cheating? (slrpnk.net)

submitted 1 year ago by GrassrootBoundaries@slrpnk.net to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 83 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Cheating is when you do something that betrays your partners trust.

I couldn't care less if my partners post nudes, anonymous or otherwise, so it wouldn't be cheating for me.

Other people feel differently, and so it could be cheating for them.

[–] supakaity@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago

I also agree.

While I couldn't care less (it's their body and bodily autonomy is super important to me), I'd be a little hurt if they didn't tell me about it.

In that case I'd be more interested in talking to my partner to try and understand why they felt that they couldn't talk to me about it and needed to keep it a secret.