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Excuse my ignorance im just curious.

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[–] rationalistfaith@lemmy.ml -4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Porn should be illegal. It destroys the meaning of sex. Porn is packed with human trafficking and exploitation. Porn wrecks one's brain.

I pray that porn becomes illegal.

The fact that you use prayer for a social problem already tells me how wrecked your brain is.

[–] SugarApplePie@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What do you mean when you say porn destroys the meaning of sex?

[–] rationalistfaith@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Your question is so off I advise you do research and meditate on your question.

You do realize that you're asking something that is so far off from reality and what it means to a human being.

[–] Album@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

What a gaslight!

Your question is so off I advise you do research and meditate on your question.

@SugarApplePie literally repeats your own line back to yourself asking you to expand and suddenly it's his question that is off.

When you respond like this it becomes apparent that you simply don't know the answer. You reveal yourself.

You do realize that you’re asking something that is so far off from reality and what it means to a human being.

All you've accomplished here is condescension. Clearly he doesn't realize or he wouldn't have asked. It's also clearly not a rare opinion judging by your initial post so why the pretense that he should already know?

I have to assume you're just a troll because no rational person would respond like this.

[–] rationalistfaith@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

yourbrainonporn.com

You really can't ignore the facts.

[–] BackOnMyBS@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

while i don't necessarily disagree that porn can destroy the meaning of sex and wreck one's brain, i really would prefer the state stay out of my business. i think a better approach would be to provide education on how porn affects us and avenues to seek help should someone fall into an addiction. however, getting the state involved on what people can and cannot say is too much control for my comfort.

[–] rationalistfaith@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I understand your POV but porn is as bad as hard drugs (because it is). We clearly can't regulate it given how many children get sucked into it. So letting government block this isn't the same as government overstepping into other spheres of freedom.

Excessive freedom that hurts our species isn't "freedom" but a hidden addictive trap that hurts us on a multi-generational level.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"Porn is as bad as drugs" is a privileged opinion of someone who's never lost anyone to addiction.

[–] rationalistfaith@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Porn destroys families which in turn creates broken children that turn to drugs, including porn.

Suicide rate is high with men and their depression is fraught with addictions including porn.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You know what causes even more addiction to drugs than porn does? Fucking drugs do.

You know what destroys orders of magnitude more families than porn? Surprise! It's fucking drugs, again.

Addiction requires a cage being attempted to be escaped. Porn and drugs are similar in the sense of trying to escape some sense of personal hardship. Both porn and drugs are an effect, not the cause.