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What piece of wisdom about life are you able to provide others? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 year ago by doesitwork@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I’ll go first You can do it alone but you’ll run into problems. Others that have been through it have solved those problems. Ask around if you recognize a problem and you’ll most likely receive the best solution

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[–] chuuqo@lemmy.fmhy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Don't have kids

[–] freeman@lemmy.pub 0 points 1 year ago

I would argue the opposite. Kids are amazing. They see things clearer and arent jaded. They give you purpose. There are definately hard parts, and sometimes you dont get a break, but its not something I would trade for the world. They are little reflections of you, that you can improve on and watching someone with the wonder of awe of seeing and learning all these little things for the first time is pretty damn cool. Watching it "click" when they learn to do things like build stuff, ride a bike, swim, read etc etc is pretty awesome.