That's exactly what I've been doing for about 20 years as a matter of fact. No real trouble whatsoever myself, but I can't even count the number of times now I've seen people give my Chinese wife shit and then fumble all over themselves when I (an American) walk up and introduce myself. One old guy at a ramen shop even had the balls to try to explain how much better western and Japanese girls are, while she was sitting right next to me.

[–] Gsus4@feddit.nl 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Question: but how can they tell she's not Japanese (I'm assuming she speaks Japanese)? E.g. many Europeans could pass as being from anywhere in the Americas+Europe as long as they don't say anything and dress like a local. Are they that sensitive to facial structure differences?

[–] ExLisper@linux.community 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What? Are you really saying you couldn't tell if someone is from Spain or Russia? Germany or UK? Hair colour, eyes colour, skin colour, height, facial features are all completely different. Try finding blonde, 1.9m tall Spaniard with blue eyes for example. There are exceptions obviously, but 99% of the time you can easily spot a Brit/German/Polish/Russian in Spain. The same is true for Asia. I'm sure it's very easy for them to tell Japanese/Chinese/Korans/Indians apart.

[–] Gsus4@feddit.nl 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sure, the percentages of certain traits in the population are radically different, but there is always enough variation within the population that you can find combinations without automatically having to conclude that the person is foreign. Maybe the variation is smaller within Japan, I know it's larger in China, so maybe a Japanese woman would blend easier in China than the reverse?

[–] tryptaminev@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

I can only judge from media and people i met here in Europe, but for all of them the facial structure is pretty distinct between chinese and japanese people.

[–] gogozero@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 1 year ago

chinese, japanese, koreans, and orher asians have different facial features and are typically easily distinguishable

[–] mrbubblesort@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

This would be after she's introduced herself, but you can make a pretty good guess about most Asian people once you get used to the differences as well