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NSFW: I am a trans girl who is drunk and high at the same time, AMA! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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Give me your worst, Lemmy! Absolutely nothing is off limits. Let’s get fucking weird!

I post this here because /c/iama doesn’t seem to be a thing…

Don’t hold back you jerks!

EDIT: It’s just about 05:00 for me. Night night! I’ll answer any other questions. In a few hours!

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[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That is a great question!

I need to preface this by saying that my entire friend group is Viet.

In Viet culture, male and female roles are explicitly defined. That means that, generally, the girls hang with the girls, and the guys hang with the guys.

The weirdest part is kind of sad. I don’t fit in with the girls because I am not feminine enough, and the guys try to grab my tits as a joke. I don’t belong anywhere.

My best friend, Chi Man is the one that helps me stay grounded to this earth.

Otherwise, it’s the usual contract custodian doesn’t get a good look at me, so they warn me about going into the men’s room at work (where I was specifically told to go )

[–] Nonameuser678@aussie.zone 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Those guys sound like assholes and many would consider their behaviour to be sexual harassment/ assault.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 38 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Agreed. After I was raped the first time, my outlook on the world changed. This was a guy I met on Grindr, and I was not being safe at all. My big sis tried to warn me, but I just wanted to have fun like the cishet people do. I know SA is a big problem when it comes to casual sex and women. I never thought it would happen to me. That is what we all think.

The pigs never even contacted me after my rape-kit at the hospital.

Everyone, regardless of gender., should be careful out there. Remember that the pigs are not your friends; they exist as protectors of property and straight white people.

[–] Kushan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hey sorry I'm late, but thanks for your response to my original question above. I'm sorry such shit things have happened to you but I hope things get better <3