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How did you parents take you coming out? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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I didn't come out until I was 26, and it went badly.

My dad sat in judgement and was very ashamed of me. He did change his mind much later but still said "I don't like your lifestyle".

Mum never changed and did not like it all.

Both of them are dead now, and... I don't particularly miss them. I feel strange reading about how other people appreciate their parents.

My partner's mum considers me her 2nd son. She's been so accepting of me, as has her family. Same with my cousins, who my dad decided not to tell. When I did tell them after he died, they were mostly very welcoming.

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[–] oi_dude@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I am a father whose child came out to me. His mother and I were proud, and very flattered that they felt safe enough to tell us. I am saddened that this isn’t the universal experience — every child deserves that.

I know it was difficult for your parents, and I respect that, but you deserve to be embraced just as you are.

It sounds like you are moving on with your life and embracing family that loves you. I think that’s wise.

I know people are reading this who are going through some things. Take care of yourself. You really do deserve it.