Asklemmy

44734 readers

1690 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy 🔍

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

Open-ended question
Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

Lemmyverse: community search
sub.rehab: maps old subreddits to fediverse options, marks official as such
!lemmy411@lemmy.ca: a community for finding communities

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 5 years ago

MODERATORS

What should I tip when given free food or drinks? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 6 hours ago by lol_idk@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

11 comments fedilink hide all child comments

When friends give me free food or drinks, I usually tip the full cost of what I was given. So if you gave me an $8 drink, I would tip you $8.

This still benefits me in that I don't have to pay that $8 plus another tip, but I'm wondering if there's an expectation or standard that would save me some $

Sometimes this one place gives me $20 of food before closing when I only intended to spend $5 so the upsell kinda hurts

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[–] Quintus@lemmy.ml 12 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Don't? It's a gift. Why tip? If they expect you to then that's hypocrisy on their part.

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Sounds more like a roundabout way for the server or bartender to steal from the company.

[–] Bocky@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

It’s balanced out by the wage thefts from employers though. Sub minimum wage compensation is unacceptable

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 0 points 3 hours ago

I agree, but maybe leave the industry?