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When friends give me free food or drinks, I usually tip the full cost of what I was given. So if you gave me an $8 drink, I would tip you $8.

This still benefits me in that I don't have to pay that $8 plus another tip, but I'm wondering if there's an expectation or standard that would save me some $

Sometimes this one place gives me $20 of food before closing when I only intended to spend $5 so the upsell kinda hurts

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[โ€“] bassomitron@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Sometimes this one place gives me $20 of food before closing when I only intended to spend $5 so the upsell kinda hurts

But that upsell is strictly self-inflicted. If it's before closing, I can almost guarantee the staff are just hooking you up because a large amount of that food is just going to go to waste since most restaurants require things to get thrown away (e.g. if it's a deli, some of the meats may have hit their shelf life limit).

I'd just tip what you can comfortably afford and what you feel isn't insulting (e.g. tipping someone like $0.50 on a $20+ order). I always follow the 15-20% rule, and possibly higher in some circumstances. But I don't know, I haven't worked food in 20 years, so maybe the manners/expectations have changed nowadays. Also depends where you live.

[โ€“] safesyrup@feddit.org 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Tipping 15-20% sounds so crazy to me not beeing from the USA