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~~Every time I get to know my neighbors, things are going well and then they suddenly drop something wildly transphobic, homophobic, or ableist. The last one was especially horrifying back when people were still talking about COVID— "but it only affects old/disabled people!"— pretty much saying to your face that they're cool if you die.~~
~~Relying on other people in a survival scenario seems incredibly irresponsible. It's America. Your neighbors want you dead.~~
ETA yknow what this is cynical and unproductive. Just do your best to protect yourself but if you belong to a vulnerable group you already know that. People aren't inherently evil and I need to log off when I'm upset.
Not all parts of America, my area is at least +50 Harris, someone being an open nazi walking around waving swasticas or doing the salute here will get their ass beaten.
It's not even universally true in red states, unless you want to believe I'm the Super Special Exception. I was thinking of my own failed attempts to reach out recently and got bitter and started saying shit.