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This is less for the hardware portion and more for the human element;
Figure out what you want your instance to be about and be very clear about it. Maybe write up your rules and have someone friendly with experience go over it with a rules-lawyer vibe, because a lot of the unfun parts of running anything revolve around a tiny segment of the population who will test you.
I have a lot of experience with this if you need assistance, and I know there are others here who do as well.
Remember, being clear about what you stand for and what you want your instance to stand for isn't just a benefit for you, it also helps let users know whether they agree with you or not, as there's always another server they can join or post on if they prefer.
ETA; if you're open to it, I also have a lot of friends who love going over rules with a fine-tooth comb and enjoy helping people, so I could share it with them, too. You can also post openly on Lemmy somewhere and invite discussion. Remember, what you want most is to create the specific space you want. The more specific, the better. And that excluding people isn't always bad! Safe spaces are necessary.