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AITAH My brother is a Musk apologist and I no longer want to come to his wedding (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 week ago by dhcmrlchtdj__@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I’ve had several conversations/arguments recently with my brother making clear my system of values and my hatred for the wealthy. He is nearly diametrically opposed on all accounts and often makes light of their actions. He goes so far as to say that poor people and people in need of social services should have to figure things out for themselves. He often defends Elon Musk and champions him for being self made.

He is getting married in a foreign country soon and I have been able to put aside our differences and have been planning on going

…up until yesterday that is. I asked him of his thoughts on Musk’s seig heil maneuver and he sent a right wing meme of democratic leaders caught mid wave, saying that “they did it first”. He continued to be avoidant and didn’t respond to me calling it a strawman.

In this moment it feels necessary to cancel my plans to send a message that this is not ok. Am I the (or an) asshole for not going to his wedding because of this?

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[–] pH3ra@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If that was really the case and if I was OP I'd go to that wedding, get absolutely shitfaced in the least amount of time my liver allows me to and let the shitshow begin.
There is no point in peaceful confrontation when the world is burning.

[–] Windex007@lemmy.world -3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

It's amazing to me how willing people are to play the part of the shrill reee-ing blue haired archetype foil that Republicans created.

I'm going to get drunk and ruin a wedding. THAT will fix the world.

No, dumbass, it's going to validate everything fox news has been telling their base about the left. You have absolutely no self awareness, and will ruin your brother's wedding as if he was the CEO of Shell even though he's a construction worker in rural Montana.

Be the strawman the Republicans want you to be!

[–] pH3ra@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago

You are projecting a lot of things I haven't said: I'm not crashing a wedding for any sense of politics, this is beyond any political motivation. This is personal.
If I have a beef with my brother, or any other member of my family, and they invite me to their wedding, boy am I making them regret this decision.
Everyone at that party is going to think twice before sending me that golden print letter in the future. No one thinks you're a "crazy liberal" when you're puking orange juice and vodka you brought from home in the punchbowl and then shout out "Don't worry everyone, it's just gonna taste better!"

[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

How ironic.

"A nazi thinks people suck!!! So if I'm behaving NORMALLY, then I'm the problem!" Is essentially what you say.

Who then is the problem? If you can't see that for yourself, I suggest you remove your profile from Lemmy.