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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.

Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.

At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.

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is there a way to talk this out or is this a red flag… (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 week ago by galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/bisexual@lemmy.world

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i’m bi. so is my gf katya.

however, katya is also a HUGE right-wing Trump supporter. she literally follows him on every single account and says stuff like “no one cares abt lgbt rights” which is an odd thing to say as a bi person.

Katya is also very nice to me and very much in love with me, though, despite our differing opinions, and I know she’d be offended if I questioned them.

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[–] Cris_Color@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I think their point was mostly that if someone you love advocates for your harm, they don't love you (implied: at least not in a healthy way)

Personally I think love can be deeply unhealthy, toxic, and messy and still be love, but I do understand the point they're making.

[–] OccamsRazer@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago

Yeah but it could be and likely is so much more complicated than that. They might be fooled by other peers and will change their mind in 6 months, or they might have concerns but feel that certain other issues are more important right now. Maybe they don't believe that Trump is an existential threat to the people they care about. Maybe they are right about that or maybe they are wrong, but i think it's bad advice to treat people as though they have the same enlightened state that you do, but are willingly and intentionally evil anyway. Reality is always so much more complicated.