How do you guys read books that you don't feel like reading?
I consider myself a decent reader. If I'm very interested in a book, I'm able to stay up all night, reading it as much as I can until I feel like if I read anymore I'll get fired for sleeping on the job. I love to read fantasy books, but usually most interesting fiction books are able to keep my attention.
The trouble I've got is with non-fiction books. Books that are talked about as "must reads". Books like Sapiens, The Selfish Gene, Pale Blue Dot, or any textbook/technical documentation. I've tried again and again to read non-fiction books. Breaking it up into smaller chunks, listening to them as audiobooks, or just slogging through it page by page. But nothing seems to stick in my head if I grind through them.
Now, before you go "Hey naznsan, just don't! Life is too short to read books you don't want to read!", the thing is, I want to read these books. Some of them explain things I'm decently interested in. Some of them I have to read for work/education. I just seem to have trouble either focusing, staying motivated, or retaining any information in such books.
So does anyone have any tips or suggestions on how I could read such non-fiction books like I read my fiction? Or am I doomed to just slog through page by page, relying on my notes to do all the remembering?
I can relate to this. I have a hard time with many books even if I am interested in the subject; interesting content doesn't mean that that content is easy to get through or engaging throughout.
I usually read a few things at a time and I'll often choose these types of books to listen to when I'm doing chores and errands. I might not feel motivated to sit down and give the book my full attention, but I can handle an hour or two of passive listening. The downside of having my attention split is that I will definitely miss things and have to pause and go back, but that doesn't frustrate me nearly as much as when I'm fully concentrating and still find myself rereading the same paragraph without absorbing anything. It might take me several hours to listen to a book that should theoretically take me half the time to read, but in the end I'd rather have finished the book however long it took! This doesn't work for highly technical books where you really need to have the text in front of you the entire time, but I haven't had problems with the type of non-fiction you've mentioned.
Another thing that really helps me is having the book in both text and audio formats. I'm able to retain the information much better if I listen and later skim through the text I covered to note what stuck out to me. It's a bit of a waste of library check-outs, but having the ability to switch between formats helps me get through the material faster. It sounds like a chore but it doesn't actually take much time to do.
Lastly, sometimes I do just lean into the "boredom" and read a little before bed since there's no risk that I'll binge the book and stay up all night.
It sounds like you're already doing a lot of this (audiobooks, notes) so if that's the case, I guess the main thing that helps me and might hopefully help you is just being okay with the glacial pace and extra effort?