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Its hard to justify the cost mostly. It's also mildly amusing watching people stumble a bit if I have to show my ID for something. But getting called my deadname at the bank is starting to get tiresome ๐Ÿ™ƒ

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[โ€“] Lux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

What's the newspaper ad for? Is it publicly announcing that your trans or something?

[โ€“] LassCalibur@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That sums it right up I think but supposedly its for the worlds creditors who all read your local newspaper to watch for us changing our names just to get away from debts.

[โ€“] feminalpanda@lemmings.world 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I got mine waived as my mom already stalked my sister around town and posted about militant lesbians when she started dating women.

I think you can extend that to alt right terrorists.

[โ€“] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

In California they require public notice of name change unless it is for marriage status change or associated with a gender change.