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What trait instantly makes you despise a person beyond belief? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 year ago by overlyanxious@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] vladmech@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Being rude to restaurant servers and retail workers just because you can. Instantly flips my opinion on anyone who does this.

Also people who litter. It’s amazingly selfish.

[–] overlyanxious@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

I love how half the things in this thread are listing whole ass litanies of terrible abuser traits and then going & ALSO LITTERERS. damn can I agree

[–] Prefix@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Agreed - you can tell a lot about someone by how they treat restauraunt staff.

[–] overlyanxious@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

there's ZERO excuse to ever shout at somebody who's working, they can't argue back and it's incredibly one sided