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[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 52 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Europeans: Americans are so obsessed with race

Also Europeans:

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This has almost nothing to do with race (or at least with hers), it's just a dumb analogy to play with the title in a western movie fashion. "Hunting the white man" refers to the search for a white vice-president that would play well with "wasp" population.

[–] sunzu@kbin.run 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Basic Americans don't understand nuance or that other places have different ideas. To an American everything is done through America lens which frequently looks idiotic or poorly educated from outside.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (26 children)

I think any country would come asking questions if their political leaders were pictured with culturally sensitive stuff like this. Imagine if a mid tier US paper put modi in half Hindu half Muslim traditional clothing. To us it's a quick way to talk about the two biggest religions in that country. Modi would be pissed though.

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[–] batmaniam@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What's ironic is you're displaying exactly what you're critiquing. This joke is a bit funny, but it's on par with something like "Prince Charles asks NRA to fix his car". There's just baggage. And lord knows Italy has plenty of its own.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

And lord knows Italy has plenty of its own.

Not when it comes to Native Americans though.

Considering that this is a national newspaper meant for locals, I don't think other culture's baggage should necessarily be taken in consideration.

[–] batmaniam@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

You do you, it's just in poor taste. It's not the end of the world or anything, it's just funny to me that it's the same thing "boorish Americans" get flack for.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Personally, if I think about reversed roles (I.e. some US newspaper putting an Italian gangster hat - a-la The Godfather to some politician with some offer-related pun) I wouldn't think of it as racist, I would understand it's not a statement about Italians in general. This also considering that being a gangster of course has plenty of negative connotations.

The whole thing feels to me like the attitude that is made fun on in Parks and Recreation and the Wamapoke. But anyway, the newspaper is shit and to be honest I find the substance of the article way worse than the image.

[–] batmaniam@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I mean you're spot on, it's really not the end of the world, and you're correct on the parks and rec.

I think people get prickly because of what you mentioned about the substance of the article probably being way worse, everyone's just primed these days lol. We're kind of sorting some shit out over here...

Anyway thanks for the conversation, it's always fun to see your own culture through someone else's eyes.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You do you, it’s just in poor taste.

This is the issue @sunzu@kbin.run is getting at. You saying it's "in poor taste" is through the lens of what is considered "good taste" for Americans.

For instance, in my country, Finland, there'd be a lot of things Americans would generally find "in poor taste". The most obvious example being that we don't consider the naked human body to be inherently sexual, whereas Americans are really prudish about that sort of thing. So a lot of things related to sauna and mökki culture would be considered "in poor taste" for Americans, but they would not be so here. We also never tip (because we actually pay our workers.)

It's ironic how you're incapable of imagining another viewpoint in a debate where someone is trying to point out how bad Americans are at imagining other viewpoints.

"You do you." Yeah. We do do we, that's why the cultural values and what is "in poor taste" is different..?

[–] batmaniam@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I guess what it comes down to is there a plenty of things, big and small, that I don't have an issue with as an American but I know matter to the other person. Usually it's small stuff (how people comport themselves in relation to work, the line between direct and rude, etc) , but when it comes to things where people died, I think it's best to defer to the people involved.

Maybe that's a trap of my upbringing as well but I don't see that as American lens, I see that as recognizing there are a lot of lenses.

And again, the original joke is decent, its a role reversal and punches up not down, but I wouldn't want an American paper making jokes about Finnish biathalon Olympians spanking the Russians.

Any joke with cultural baggage carries the risk you miss context. Again, I don't think that's just true for Americans.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Maybe that's a trap of my upbringing as well but I don't see that as American lens, I see that as recognizing there are a lot of lenses.

But you don't. You don't see how ingrained your perspective is. You can't see your blind spots, that's tje definition of a blind spot.

So you're saying that any time anyone wants to refer to native Americans in any way, they should ask... Americans? Not even native Americans (a term which, incidentally, is also an example of this perspective lacking American perspective

What's the offensive part here? Acknowledging Kamala's heritage? Making a joke headline? What?

I'm pretty sure you can't answer that without an exceedingly American perspective on it.

Here in Europe, we do consider these things. For one, it's literally illegal to be a Nazi in Germany and do nazi salutes and whatnot, but that's allowed in the US. A tit flashing on TV, however isn't. The Washington Redskins only relabeled themselves "the Washington Commanders" in 2022.

but I wouldn't want an American paper making jokes about Finnish biathalon Olympians spanking the Russians.

What? Why would that offend anyone? This is exactly what we mean when we talk about your American perspective. You just can't imagine someone having different values and practices apparently.

It would be an amazing day for Finns if a huge American newspaper did a frontpage story about something like that.

I'm pretty sure that a lot of illustrations in Finnish newspapers when it comes to stories about saunas and mökki culture would be downright unacceptable in print media in the US.

And when you manage to half-understand someone elses reasons for doing something, you still don't understand their motivation and then conclude by some highroading about being insensitive to death or something, implying your moral framework is superior. When the moral framework of the person who raised you probably included "segregation is just normal everyday business" at least in their childhood.

Because racism has been such a massive thing in the US for such a long time, some of you have become a little too sensitive and are eager to point out how racist other places are according to you. Simplest examples would be getting mad at the Spanish word for "black", or the Korean word 네가 [nega]

"Any joke with cultural baggage"

Again, you can't see that the cultural baggage is American. It's not Italian. There's no cultural baggage here, when viewed without your American perspective. That's what I try to keep iterating.

Honestly, you don't think you miss context when you probably don't understand the cultural framework this was created in at all?

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This isn't coming from a naive, "regular Joe" Italian. News papers should be a bit better about international sensitives.

[–] sunzu@kbin.run 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You literally missed the point I am making here lol

They did on purpose and you are still getting bent out of shape to fit his into American world view.

Why would you think a news paper in italy would give two fucks about "international sensitivities" around a foreign state's leader? Where does this idea come from?

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Further down the threat, a local revealed it was from a grocery store rag, not a legit news paper. So the imagery makes more sense.

As far as way a legit, local news paper would want to care about “international sensitivities”, Professionalism would be one. As an American, if an American news paper used Chinese stereotypes or Yellow Face in an article about Japanese politicians, I would expect both Americans and Japanese People to be outraged.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

a local revealed it was from a grocery store rag, not a legit news paper

Not really, it is a legit newspaper. A shitty one, but still a newspaper.

if an American news paper used Chinese stereotypes or Yellow Face in an article about Japanese politicians

This is more like making an image of some politician who "joins the fight" with Bruce Lee pose, or suit, or something.

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This is more like making an image of some politician who “joins the fight” with Bruce Lee pose, or suit, or something.

Bruce Lee is a specific person, not a racial stereotype.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

You can replace it with any "asian martial artist in movies", it is probably a better comparison to "Native Americans in spaghetti western". I would say both are not really a statement on asian/native american people in general, and it's a clear cultural reference. Definitely different from a Yellow Face

[–] sunzu@kbin.run -1 points 1 month ago

would expect both Americans and Japanese People to be outraged

Still missing the point lol

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I mean, they're right. The European version of racism is much more inattention and inexperience-fueled. This is arguably an example.

[–] huginn@feddit.it 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

That is not my experience in Italy.

Just ask a European about gypsies or African migrants. It will get very racist very quickly.

[–] shikitohno@lemm.ee 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yeah, my experience has been that a lot of countries whose residents tell me racism is an American problem and we should stop trying to project it onto other societies happen to live in countries with huge problems with it that just aren't explicitly spoken about in the same terms.

I had a Brazilian friend tell me race is not all that important in Brazil and that he's tired of Americans assuming it is. I periodically have to ask him, "Do you read Brazilian news, bro?" and send some links that make it blatantly obvious that racism is alive and well down there.

You also just get people who have bought into very pervasive attitudes in countries that justify/explain away racism when it's encountered.

[–] sunzu@kbin.run 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Brazilian acts like they don't have the same slaver history as US... They must really assume Americans are this fucking stupid not to k ow basics of how Brazil functions

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 month ago

TBF most Americans are pretty ignorant about the rest of the world (and it's not really their fault, the other self-contained superpower is the same or worse). Not all though.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I had a Brazilian friend tell me race is not all that important in Brazil and that he’s tired of Americans assuming it is.

Are you sure this person is Brazilian? This is the country that abolished chattel slavery in 1888, a couple decades after America. They still have whiteness as a standard of attractiveness there, too.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago

Or Albanians, Romanians and other people with a history of migration (at least in Italy).

That said, the racist dynamics in Italy are still different from those of a country with a much different history, linked to slavery and colonialism (thankfully Italian empire was a ridiculously failed attempt), with a different racial distribution in population. African migrants are for example a relatively new phenomenon. We are now at the 2nd generation give or take, and I have the feeling things will normalize ad they did for balcan people, as long as right-wing governments will not sabotage immigration on purpose to maintain it as a problem and gather votes...

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Gypsies may be a counterexample, that's true. African migrants are an example: America's very fabric is (traditionally) about black vs. white, even moreso than the things it's conventionally associated with. Europe, on the other hand, just thought of Africa as the colonies for a long time, and Africans arriving in great numbers is a new thing.

It's not less racist, but it's racist in a very different way.