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What is an event that altered you in some way? (piefed.social)

submitted 3 months ago by cashmaggot@piefed.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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For better or worse. Small scale or large. Personal or shared. What is an event you've experienced that changed the way you act, live, feel, etc. It could be short-term or long. Share what you feel comfortable with. Triumphs and tragedies alike.

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[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I also stuck my dick in crazy. Terrible idea. The main problem was that I was too dumb/dense to see the red flags, one of them being my mom, of all people, not liking her.

It was good sex, I was her first, but I didn't want to make it anything other than some no-commitment flings. Once I started a proper relationship with another woman later, crazy stalked my gf online, full of threats. Crazy ended up in a psychiatric ward about a month later and her mother called me, asking me to "please go visit her, she loves you from the bottom of her heart".

Against my better judgement, I actually went. The place looked like an insane asylum that should've been force-closed decades ago. Horrible smell, filthy, the inmates (dunno if that's the correct term, but feels appropriate) pretty much relied on relatives for any hygiene. Crazy hugged me, but I was just so appalled with the place I didn't even know how to react. She got out about a week later and her mom was still trying to play cupid, saying she was much better now and wouldn't skip her meds anymore, but I told her I was happy with my girlfriend and blocked her.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago

I once went absolutely flat broke fucking down on someone, but the ass was soooooo GOODDDDksfha;lksfhafklhasf!! But also you know, not worth it. But still kinda a "damn" thought in my head. Hahahaha! But really, you get SO DUMB when you're thinking with your downstairs bits over your upstairs bits. Or like, in conjunction =P! Hormones~~~~