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What's the worst thing to do on a first date? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by CaspianXI@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] RandomVanGloboii@feddit.it 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

After years of a solid, unquestioned relationship

[–] RomanRoy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Why, tho?

It is obviously weird in the first date, but I think it should be brought up pretty early in a relationship.

If they don't have the same goals or view these things remotely the same way, why invest time in a relationship? Just to have it become a problem ahead?