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It depends on the person. But yes it's frustrating as heck to be close and not get there. And even more frustrating it would be if it was because the guy thought women didn't care about it.
Just being turned on, though? Not actively having sex? I dunno. Are you saying that every single time you are turned on even a little you have to follow that all the way to orgasm? I don't think most guys are like that, or at least not the ones I've been with.