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I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[–] dandroid@dandroid.app 16 points 10 months ago (5 children)

I feel like a very high percentage of posts and comments here are just "Americans bad." And as an American, even though the things they are complaining about don't apply to me specifically, it makes me feel very unwelcome.

[–] Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I feel like that’s kind of the case for a lot of things here. God forbid you find anything remotely positive about the wrong brand of phone, operating system or web browser. You’re unwelcome.

[–] phanto@lemmy.ca 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Oh man... I use Precisely the wrong phone, operating system, AND web browser! Heck, I am using the wrong Operating System on my wrong Phone, and I am commenting right now on the wrong web browser. Also, not American, but alot of my friends are.

[–] vulgarcynic@sh.itjust.works 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It's a bit on an echo chamber. The world is frustrated with us. But if you are in another country as an American, you'll be judged more by your actions usually. In my personal experience most people still understand that there's 2 Americas and a little bit of humility and humbility is all it takes to be seen as more than a red hat and a flag.

[–] phanto@lemmy.ca 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I intend to make "humbility" a word in my corner of the world.

[–] vulgarcynic@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 months ago

It's like humility will a little extra thank you. Lol

[–] LemmyRefugee@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

Europoor here, sending virtual support to you.

[–] blind3rdeye@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago

I think the high popularity of Trump is very damaging for all of the USA.

[–] prole@sh.itjust.works 0 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Well, I'm an American and right now our country is going down the shitter and it's important to call out the fascists that are taking us there. Does that shit apply to me specifically? No. Does that mean I ignore it? Fuck no.

Maybe you should grow up and accept valid criticism.