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I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[–] d3Xt3r@lemmy.nz 17 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I was reading some thread over at !politics

There you go, that's your problem. Political topics always gets heated and brings out the worst in people, no matter the platform. The first thing I did is block all politics (and general news + sports) communities, and it's been a fairly pleasant experience so far for me, except for the odd troll or fanboy that shows up every now and then.

[–] Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Lemmy.nz also defederated Hexbear, which helped a lot.

Technically they pulled a "you can't fire me, I quit" and defederated first, but whatever.

[–] DrRatso@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago

Yea, they tend to do that, think they did the same with blaahaj. Pretty funny tbh.

[–] exocrinous@lemm.ee -2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You didn't block all politics. Everything is political.

[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

No it's not. You can have casual communities or gaming or sports communities that aren't political.

[–] exocrinous@lemm.ee 0 points 10 months ago

Casual conversation, gaming, and sports are political.