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When I was on Reddit I felt like my opinion didn’t matter. But here it just feels more open and free.

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[–] Kiloee@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I feel like I am not yet, but I will be. Some of the subs I have on Reddit aren’t here yet, partly because they’re either niche or liked by a lot of people that are less tech literate including their maintainers.

I have gone trough some instances before deciding on my current one and I like the stance of most that are for an active discussion, against mindless downvotes and for overall more communication than social media consumption.

The fact that there is next to no automated account making will also help in the long run I think. It makes it an less attractive target for the bad kind of bots imo.

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[–] Fubarberry@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Depends, I was mainly active on small subreddits that were focused on things I was interested in. Here those small subs don't exist yet (or are very inactive), but the lower overall user count means I'm interacting with a lot more communities than I would on reddit.

[–] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 3 points 1 year ago

MUCH more active here for me

[–] robonps@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Lemmy just feels better to comment/interact with. I just feel more motivated to be active on here.

I feel like the nays will be underrepresented bc of selection bias so I'll be one.

So far I have not had the same engagement. But I am convinced that is bc I have yet to get used to the jerboa UI/UX. I am more active once I feel at home, was the same for reddit, is the same for lemmy.

Its great that you feel more impactful on lemmy! I think on reddit you either feel the way you have or are constantly being called a slur (say "tankie") and removed/banned left and right.

So far lemmy seems way more authentic to me. Less capital interest, PR companies, bots, astroturf, think tank/gov-adjacent hacks. I like that.

Alos writing this made me realize my mode of commenting is still very much a reddit one

[–] briongloid@aussie.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My local cities daily thread is more active than it what's left on Reddit, despite the Reddit community having 600k subs. 410 comments on the Reddit thread, 480 on the lemmy community thread.

It's been like this daily.

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[–] Thurgo@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Most of my Reddit commenting was done on threads for people looking for advice in one of my hobbies. I generally had a good experience giving feedback here since most people in the subreddit were level headed. Sometimes you got the occasional asshole parroting the usual online "best way to do something" that goes against some people's actual real life experience that is being shared.

I didn't really make any meaningful (non joke) comments outside of this subreddit since I didn't feel like getting some dick in my notifications trying to start a fight over whatever I posted. Sometimes I didn't mind battling the dicks in the hobby subreddit since people lurking can actually learn or get a different perspective from "No, you shouldn't take what's in a listicle as fact. Here is my experience with this."

I feel like I have seen more conversations on Lemmy about Reddit than original content

Yeah I'm easy more active here that on Reddit, though I was very active when Reddit was younger. It just got too big and lost that feeling of taking to actual people and contributing to the overall experience.

[–] lvxferre@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Me, by far.

In Reddit: dropped mod position years ago. Used uBlock Origin to remove the voting buttons, as they're pointless. The only threads that I've created were in r/RedditAlternatives, near the end. Create account, comment as I feel in the mood to comment, shred its content, repeat every ~3 months. Extremely rude tone towards anyone showing the smallest sign of shallow thinking, wishful thinking, or similar character flaws. Scaling up arguments for the sake of why not.

Here: moderating three comms. Actively voting. Creating threads fairly often, specially in the comms that I mod. Trying to keep a polite tone and contribute as long as I can. I've only got a single potential fight (against an extremely trashy user - assumptive, with poor reading, but still screeching like he was in Reddit), and even then I simply told myself "meh, why bother".

[–] dap@lemmy.onlylans.io 3 points 1 year ago

Absolutely. As much as I loved Reddit, I always felt drowned out due to the large user base and was hesitant to share my opinion. Thanks to Lemmy and its (currently) smaller communities, I feel like my voice has wider reach or, at the very least, less aggressive competition.

[–] dragnucs@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I am more actif here than on reddit. There was a time on reddit I stopped even upvotes and down votes when I noticed they are changing philosophy. Here I post more stuff and wrote more comments. Sometimes to add value to discussions and sometimes just for the sake of commenting and getting activity rolling.

[–] Md1501@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

I have not been on reddit since the protest, but I didnt post or comment a lot anyway so probably not much of an impact

[–] esty@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i feel most of the people that actually made the jump to lemmy are the more mature and calmer crowd as compared to your average Redditor

[–] imgprojts@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is an incorrect assessment of the facks. I believe it to be the same people that hate reddit for banning them....and me. You know... Good people 😁. People who like and say weird shit. People who find useful ways to use reddit....and then reddit finds out it's useful and replaces you with a bot or someone else.....

Reddit's modo should be "build our communities! And get the fuck out! They're our communities!"

I am the former admin for r/keitruck and r/Seattlegay. One day I started to notice hate messages. I might have replied. Then I noticed a deluged of that until one morning I got a message saying I was banned. I spent all my fun pandemic free time building those two places. So fuck reddit.

[–] esty@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

key word there was most

[–] s0phia@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, it's fun being part of a smaller community.

[–] onlinely@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Not yet. My niche communities don’t exist in the fediverse yet like they do on Reddit, and I do not have the bandwidth to start new communities right now. Excited to watch it grow and continue to contribute where I can.

[–] z3k3lon@lemmy.pt 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I haven't browsed Reddit since a couple of weeks now. I am definitely more active on Lemmy.

[–] br0da@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

On Reddit I was afraid to comment or post because of the inevitable onslaught of users who would try to start a keyboard fight on the most trivial of topics. It hindered me from just sharing any kind of opinion or cool accomplishment to the point where I would just comment with a one-word or one-liner in hopes it's not petrol. Getting shit on turns you in to a lurker. I've engaged more on Lemmy in the past 2 weeks than I have on Reddit in years. I like it here.

[–] CassowaryTom@vlemmy.net 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I never posted on Reddit. Every time I did it was a bad time. I could post the most innocuous thing imaginable (The sky is blue. Water is wet), and without fail have at least a few people telling me I was stupid, naive, woke, a Nazi, whatever. There is a ton of extremist energy around here too, but the radical left is much easier for me to stomach than the radical right.

[–] SinJab0n@mujico.org 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

But the water isn't wet dude, it's humid.

(Oh sht, I have been lurking a little and apparently my comment is the kind people is tired of. Please confirm me I'm not that guy)

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[–] imgprojts@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

The smaller the community, the bigger the impact of your opinions.

For example, just on my own, I can reach a good 50% impact on anything I say unless my wife says something different.

[–] manitcor@lemmy.intai.tech 2 points 1 year ago

back to a level of activity i would call my "normal". hasn't been like this in almost a decade.

[–] supermurs@suppo.fi 2 points 1 year ago

For me it was always difficult to be active on R so the atmosphere here is much more pleasant.

[–] jax@lemmy.cloudhub.social 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, I am significantly more active here than I was on Reddit (at least recently, my decline on posting/commenting on Reddit started a few years ago).

[–] speaker_hat@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago
[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 year ago

I'm not there yet, although I did a lot on Reddit

[–] BendyLemmy@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure it matters more TBH... but I basically stopped Reddit for 2 days, and now just get drawn back to read the occasional post - but don't bother commenting.

With the downtick in Reddit, I remembered that I hadn't read a book for a month or two, so I headed over to Annies Archive and grabbed a bunch to add to my Kindle...

So I now downloaded 3 versions of 'Great Expectations' and am reading that book before watching them - but also have "Welcome to the MonkeyHouse" by Kurt Vonnegut and "The Book Thief" grabbed from Annie's Archive.

Basically now I'm spending less than half the time on net than I was before.

[–] TheInsane42@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I'm a lot more active then I was on Reddit.

I was very active in the subs of the games I play (I'm even r/CSRRacing2 mod) when I started there, but I'm getting tired of the hate, stupidity,...

[–] Badass_panda@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

My level of activity on Reddit has been wanting. I was / am still fairly active in some niche subs, but I used to be pretty active in AskReddit, askmen, and several other spaces.

I've made a concerted effort to be more active here, and it feels nice! Feels a lot more human

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