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I had been feeling a bit drawn in to reddit for the past few months before the divorce. I feel like the slower pace at which content comes out on Lemmy is good for me in that way. I can't just scroll and scroll and scroll my entire day away.

Does anyone else feel similar?

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[–] soulhacker@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

IMO, the pace feels slower because you aren't seeing any ads, and as a result, scrolling less and receiving more posts you really want to interact with.

Sure, the userbase is still coming together, but that's just a matter of time.

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[–] twistedtxb@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

You can check your favorite subs daily and not be overwhelmed by content. It's a nice thing

[–] gina@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

In the early 2000s there were a couple of different forums I liked, so once a day I’d walk over to the library to use the internet and catch up. I’ve missed having that kind of healthy relationship with the internet, haha.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 year ago

It's probably not going to last.

[–] ShittyKopper@lemmy.w.on-t.work 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Because of the slow nature of content I ended up being subscribed to more communities than I would have back at Reddit. My feed is still 99% 196 just like in Reddit, but instead of needing to pop into r/all or r/popular every few hours, the New Comments sort ends up "sprinkling" interesting stuff from other communities into my feed.

[–] bandario@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I know I'm late to the party but is there any chance you can explain 196 to me?

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[–] vegetarian_pacemaker@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It is a blessing for someone like me who had a lot of difficulties to stay away from reddit. Lemmy gives me a slow paced window of reddit, with RSS feeds taking up the rest of the free time. So in the end the time I spend is more focussed on my interests but driven by reputable sites instead of someone in reddit.

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[–] RagingNerdoholic@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

To be perfectly honest, no :(

Reddit is just so incredibly massive, there's always something new and interesting to find in /r/all

I hope one day that lemmy can achieve such reach.

[–] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago
[–] JCreazy@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I do appreciate it but I also notice that a lot of content is not getting moderated resulting in low quality posts/spam.

[–] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that happens. As more mod tools come out I'm sure that will get better with time.

[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago

Sort of yes?

It certainly gives me a lot more time for reading rather than social media which is probably a good thing.

[–] signofzeta@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Slower? Have you not seen all the beans? Maybe that’s just my feed.

[–] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I had posted this a few days before the reddit API change, it was a lot slower then. I kinda miss it TBH...

[–] SpinDrift@lemmy.fribyte.no 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm making a bean filter

[–] cccc@aussie.zone 1 points 1 year ago

It’s good because I feel like I can actually participate without getting lost in the shuffle.

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