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My current fave is Ted Lasso

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[–] Bizarroland@kbin.social 38 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The good place.

I can't think of any other show that so effortlessly addresses the process of hitting rock bottom and then crawling out of the hole you dug for yourself with tenderness and comedy than that show.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'll watch this next I think (before the others to be sure) but I really wanna enjoy and have the space+time for Ted presently

[–] PrinceWith999Enemies@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m going to second The Good Place. Both it and Ted are complete now, and they close their story arcs perfectly. The third one I would add is Schitt’s Creek.

I also really liked Our Flag Means Death, but they haven’t said whether the second season will be the last one or whether they’re going to try for a third. I’d still recommend it, though.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Ah, can you resubmit Schitt's Creek please as a top-level comment? I'd hate for it to be buried in the weeds or secondary in any sense. I love that show, excellent bedtime wind-down show. I feel my blood pressure drop the moment I hear those caucaphonious horns lol

[–] dandroid@dandroid.app 1 points 1 year ago

I just finished this show. It was so good. It's been a long time since I have watched a show this good.

[–] PanaX@lemmy.ml 25 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm being totally honest when I say, This Old House. It's always positive, inclusive, thoughtful. I've learned so much from so many different trades. They restore neglected structures and highlight local businesses and people. They underscore the importance of history and community. That encourage the underserved and downtrodden to use their hands and minds for positive community building.

There are 45 seasons and it's still going. I've tried to put it on just to have in the background and always end up riveted and engrossed. I cannot recommend it enough

[–] technojamin@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I really like this answer. A show doesn’t have to explicitly focus on mental health to be a show that promotes mental wellness.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You ever heard the song "If these walls could speak"? I feel so much tenderness towards the entire conceit

[–] PaupersSerenade@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm unsure if I'd say 'focus on', but I feel The Good Place is a good fit. Honestly funny scenes, but still hits on some heavier points. The cast is lovable, often relatable, and who can say no to Dancin' Ted Dansonβ€½

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Tiny Danson!

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Bluey

It's marketed as a kids' show, but as an adult, especially a parent, it hits those Ted Lasso notes: heartwarming, aspirational, emotionally intelligent, and very funny; while still having characters who show and struggle with their flaws.

Seriously, try it out.

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

my brother (ans niece!) is obssessed with bluey! I had to 3dprint HIM a big bluey figure coz he wanted to take to his office and put on the table

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 4 points 1 year ago

I mention in another comment on this thread how much I identify with Mr. Peanutbutter from Bojack Horseman. Well, the same is true of Bandit (aka. "Dad"). When it comes to cartoon dogs, as the man said, "ten cents, which isn't a lot but it's still weird that it happened twice".

As someone with ADHD, I could tell within minutes that Bluey and the father both clearly have ADHD and deal with those struggles without actually coming out and saying it. A lot like the movie Everything Everywhere All At Once. And as a father myself the dad in the show is very relatable.

[–] Ashigaru@kbin.social 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The Netflix series Sex Education is all about a wide variety of characters' wellbeing and mental health. Even antagonistic "bad" characters tend to have hidden depths and nuance. As a show it was also surprisingly gentle with its characters, rather than just constantly beating them up for drama's sake.

[–] Nugelz@programming.dev 2 points 1 year ago

Agreed, the last season was terrible though!

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Bojack Horseman. But it's more of a "what not to do" kind of show

[–] assplode@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I was thinking the same thing.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Joe Pera Talks With You

In a tie with

How To with John Wilson

Special Mention

Scavengers Reign

Bonus

Birds, a short animated film by Scavengers Reign creator Joe Bennett and featuring the voice talents of Joe Pera.

[–] ShrimpTeriyaki@thelemmy.club 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Joe Pera fucks, It's the simple one-off comments he makes that are the most profound for me. Such as him wrapping up talking about Stephan Hawking cheating on his wife

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The end of the grocery store episode hits you like semi in a snowstorm.

That man has some sort of magic in him.

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Unironically Bojack Horseman

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you find it legitimately improves you to watch? Like is there another side to come out of where you feel you're a better person and adjusted for having experienced it?

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh, definitely. I identified very strong with Mr. Peanutbutter from early on. In later seasons, when we start to see more and more of the problematic aspects of his lifestyle, I saw myself in those, too, and it gives me a view into what I need to fix about myself: Toxic positivity, offloading "adulting" onto my spouse, being the kind of friend you invite to a house party but not a dinner party. It's not a pretty picture, but it has helped me improve.

Plus, Todd Chavez. If Ted Lasso were a homeless teen, you'd be pretty close to Todd Chavez. Tough, trusting, always hopeful, always accepting, but still has a spine and will call people out on their bullshit when a line is crossed.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Todd Chavez is my spirit animal

[–] the_q@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] CosmicTurtle@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

The episode where Wilson doses House with an antidepressant to prove to him that he's depressed was so on point.

[–] the_q@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Yeah the real core of the show is a man with a ton of mental health issues doing everything he can to not accept them. Those moments where the mental pain breaks through are really what makes me love the character.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Its was hilarious when House counter-dosed 'em with Adderall ("only the finest amphetamine salts" XD) and Wilson demands a Vicodin to smooth things out πŸ˜‚

[–] Shdwdrgn@mander.xyz 7 points 1 year ago

Rick and Morty

No other show makes family flaws so blatantly obvious. I'm not sure if that will help you resolve any family issues, but you'll be better equipped to at least identify the land mines.

[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Queer Eye. The reboot is focused on self acceptance and self betterment, on getting through difficult times and past challenges in healthy ways, and the importance of developing and being grateful for your support system to help you through your journey.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Interesting pick. Will have to check out all of these when I get through Ted

check out the old kungfu with carradine.. he played a pacifist who could kick some ass, so his mental health/integrity is paramount as they put him into irreconcilable situations.

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Beef. Starts out as a feud between two drivers. Delves into each of their lives and how dealing with your issues in an unhealthy way will spiral and affect others. Fantastic show.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It blows my mind we treat road rage point blank as "less serious" than impaired driving. It should be equally or more strenuously punished, nobody has the right to be an asshole behind the wheel. Not one. Anger and violence are so predictable and addressable its madness.

Not that you were talking about driving but I'm just making the tangent with a major commonplace example of the way this plays out every time.

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Whoa buddy, you good to drive? XD

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nope 😎 Won't happen again, Officer.

[Officer] Ya damn right it won't cuz ur coming with me now! πŸš”

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thankfully I only have a 2 mile commute through a small town so I don't deal with road rage. I could never live in a city.

But yeah, it's really just that people are strung out and road rage is just a symptom. Either way, it's dangerous for the driver and others.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Like I'm not saying its intentional but its equally indefensible and unacceptable. We should be teaching people that anger is impairing and they MUST pull over and take a walk or do what they need to do. It needs to be absolutely liabillity or something where intent is irrelevant

[–] RustedSwitch@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Best before bed too!

[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago

The Drive by Peter Attia. It's a podcast but I'd say it counts.

Crazy Ex Girlfriend gets surprisingly mental health positive as the show progresses.