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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago

Reddit peaked like eight or ten years ago. I am so ready for this. I have been doing everything in my power (completely ineffectively) to get the people and communities I care about to bridge to a libre network.

[–] RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

The new girl is hot though

[–] Eggcat@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

It feels weird. I'll still be using reddit because that is the link site i still enjoy the most. but i hope one day will be the day that something else takes over. (lets hope its not chinese like tiktok)

[–] carlyman@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I actually feel more relieved. It has become toxic and dominated by bots. As soon as a real person posts anything, it's immediately down voted

I'm enjoying Lemmy much more. Reminds me of the internet of old.

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Reddit was always at its best in the smaller communities that were focused on a more narrow interest. Eg. The ones dedicated to a particular TV show, a particular type of humour, a particular game, a particular fandom, etc.

I think it will take time for Lemmy to develop enough that those sorts of communities can succeed.

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[–] unfazedbeaver@lemmy.one 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I miss what I lack, but reddit was also going stagnant. Time to build something greater. Decentralized, but moderated, social media is an interesting idea.

Lemmys devs' political... "Leanings" sure concern me though

[–] invincible@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

OOTL here. what political leanings?

[–] unfazedbeaver@lemmy.one 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Some of the devs describe themselves as "communists" and "anarchists"

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[–] teuast@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

Sometimes it's time for a change.

[–] jlh@lemmy.jlh.name 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

A bit. Reddit has been a big part of my life for over a decade. If I lost access to all of those communities, it would be really unfortunate and hard to accept. I'll miss being able to get amazing advice or insightful comments just by adding "reddit" to my google search.

I think the spirit of Reddit will live on though, I doubt that everyone will just vanish and we'll all be stuck on subpar platforms like Twitter, Facebook, or Tiktok.

I'm really excited about the possibility of the new "Reddit" being a federated, self-hostable platform like Lemmy, and solving these periodic exodii issues once and for all! No more dictators deciding the direction the community should go. I'm really impressed with what Lemmy has accomplished so far with its code and its community.

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[–] risottinopazzesco@feddit.it 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

New place new rules new spirit. I’m all in. Deleted Apollo, will overwrite my stuff on Reddit.

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[–] khoplex@lemmy.one 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It’s definitely a strange feeling, I’m not sure that heartbreak is the right term for me. It’s more uncomfortable - I don’t mind the change but the ease of access to all the content I wanted in one place was just so fucking convenient! I know this community will grow with time, and I don’t hate that I’m more comfortable interacting here, but I look forward to the day where I can go back to my room scrolling lurk like the good ole days lol.

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[–] waspentalive@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It's like the Ikea lamp commercial. A person has a well-used lamp they have had for a long time. They go to Ikea and find a new lamp that is better and nicer. In the next scene, the old lamp is left on the curb. In the rain. alone. abandoned. The Ikea person comes on and asks "Do you feel bad for the old lamp?"

I only hope we eventually have some of the local communities that were subreddits of yore - like SacramentoBuyNothing - a place to share your old lam so it does not have to sit out in the rain at the curb.

[–] SubArcticTundra@beehaw.org 0 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Why didn't people use eBay?

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[–] brandonmarkb@beehaw.org 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Great commercial, by the way (filmed by Spike Jonze). I think the actual words are β€œwhy do you feel bad for this lamp, it has no feelings, you’re crazy!”

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[–] eifer@urbanists.social -1 points 2 years ago

@Acetamide I don't understand why though. We live in a capitalist system, and therefore Reddit has to make money in order to survive. On the current path, Reddit won't exist AT ALL. So we either get a Reddit with some fees that devs don't like, or no Reddit at all.

[–] seesaw@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 years ago

I'm permanently suspended anyway, there's no way back. They somehow find me if I create a new account lol

[–] Seigest@lemmy.ca -2 points 2 years ago

I feel that. Reddit's bit of an addiction for me. I don't use other social media so it became my one stop shop for news, inspiration, and to connect with all the little niche intrest.

Oddly, I was frequently just doom scrolling r/all to see what was going on the the world. And when I ran out of revent stuff if just sort by new. Super unhealthy behavior.

Hopfully this transition will help me slow down a bit and get back to reality.

[–] fairysnuff@lemmy.ml -4 points 2 years ago

It's so stupid that people would react so emotionally as to relate their feelings to a breakup. This should be a concern to each and every one of you. It's a website. You can get your dopamine hit elsewhere, with TikTok and other sources being still available.

The rage from the Reddit community has been surprising but this broken form of emotional regulation is embarrassing.

[–] fairysnuff@lemmy.ml -4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's so stupid that people would react so emotionally as to relate their feelings to a breakup. This should be a concern to each and every one of you. It's a website. Reacting this way is delusional. You can get your dopamine hit elsewhere, with TikTok and other sources being still available, so why the breakdown?

The rage from the Reddit community has been surprising but this broken form of emotional regulation is embarrassing.

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