Bisexual
This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.
Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.
Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.
At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.
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Honestly? It sounds like Ana is figuring herself out. I think maybe at this point you don’t need to 100% understand - keep in mind that she might not even know. I’d say don’t analyze it too hard, friendo.
If she’s truly not into girls, eventually she’ll change her labels. But for now? I’d say be a bro and support whatever she decides to try. She’ll figure it out eventually.
Sounds like you had a conversation with her about this already where you asked these questions? If I was in your shoes and I was friends with this person I’d consider apologizing to her for asking such pointed questions and share something about your journey with discovery of your own sexuality and share that those are the things that you worked through and that’s why you asked them. It’s very possible that the moment you asked those questions were the first time she considered them.
I agree with the person who said they might be venturing out despite having most adults tell them that same sex attraction is bad. They might be feeling those feelings and denying them when asked directly. Be gentle.
I don't ask her those questions, she brings them up in conversation. TYSM.
Fair - apologies for the assumption!
It's ok! :) i was just confused